Jeannine Jannot
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382 appearances
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first heard Oct 2021
last heard Oct 2021
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We are protecting, shielding and sheltering our kids probably too much.
We've been doing that for
quite a while now, but
What I think how it's translated into this kind of really young generation of kids.
I think eighteen year olds seem a lot more like fifteen year olds used to be and fifteen year olds seem a lot more like
Thirteen year olds.
which has some positive things as far as like risk taking and how close um kids want to be to their families and they their they value their psychological safety in a way that previous generations really haven't.
But I also see sort of a negative outcome when these kids go off to college.
Um, 'cause they're not necessarily prepared to deal with
the world that's not protecting, shielding and sheltering them.
Um, we help our kids when they not only don't ask us for help, but also when they don't really need our help.
And when we do that too often, I think we're sending the message to them that you can't handle it.
And then there becomes a little bit of a learned helplessness in our kids, if that's been their experience.
And another thing I I think we try to take the stress off of our kids maybe more than we should.
I think again, very well intentioned, we don't like to see our kids suffer.
And they are under genuine
Stress.
I mean school is stressful, adolescent life is stressful, all the things are stressful.
So my how I think of this is like sitting at the dinner table and saying something like
After dinner, wh would you mind emptying the dishwasher?
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