Jefferson Fisher

That's not my point.

What I'm saying is when it comes to communicating boundaries in particular.

or really anything, the more words that you use, usually the weaker the point becomes because it's confusing.

People get lost.

People grab onto one sentence and start to use their message.

Let's say use an absolute for goodness sake.

I mean, that would be terrible.

They all of a sudden in the middle of your monologue, somebody grabs onto an always, and that's all they think about.

That's

I mean, how many times have you been in a conversation with somebody and all of a sudden you're thinking, man, I wonder what's for lunch today.

And you just have thoughts, distracted thoughts that are normal and are going to happen.

And there's a natural part of this.

So how do you eliminate that as a communicator?

Cut down on the excessive words, the excessive words.

I know people that

They're just looking for a captive audience, really.

And sometimes I give them one because I might be the only person they've seen and I got to talk to in a few days.

And so they just need to kind of get it all out.

And that's okay too.

But for the most part, when it comes to effectively communicating, the more words you use, the harder it is to communicate a clear and certainly a consistent message.