Jefferson Fisher
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It's not something that you just want to do on a whim. You actually want to set aside specific time, meaning you're going to ask that supervisor or whoever, hey, I'd like to have some talk time with you. I'd like to visit with you for about five to ten minutes or so on X date. Do I got that right, Erin?
It's not something that you just want to do on a whim. You actually want to set aside specific time, meaning you're going to ask that supervisor or whoever, hey, I'd like to have some talk time with you. I'd like to visit with you for about five to ten minutes or so on X date. Do I got that right, Erin?
Awesome. So number two, what I'm hearing is when you need to speak with them, you don't want to do it in terms of saying, well, I'm just going to blow this place up. I'm going to flip tables. I'm going to make sure they remember me. Even if it's a horrible, toxic environment, what I pull from you, Aaron, is you never want to give them a reason
Awesome. So number two, what I'm hearing is when you need to speak with them, you don't want to do it in terms of saying, well, I'm just going to blow this place up. I'm going to flip tables. I'm going to make sure they remember me. Even if it's a horrible, toxic environment, what I pull from you, Aaron, is you never want to give them a reason
Awesome. So number two, what I'm hearing is when you need to speak with them, you don't want to do it in terms of saying, well, I'm just going to blow this place up. I'm going to flip tables. I'm going to make sure they remember me. Even if it's a horrible, toxic environment, what I pull from you, Aaron, is you never want to give them a reason
to say this is why we let her go because of this in other words you want to leave with your head high rather than coming out of it and let's say you just ran them upside one side and down the other you want to do it from a position of always maintaining your integrity are we good there yeah we'll have it right so far and your dignity yeah
to say this is why we let her go because of this in other words you want to leave with your head high rather than coming out of it and let's say you just ran them upside one side and down the other you want to do it from a position of always maintaining your integrity are we good there yeah we'll have it right so far and your dignity yeah
to say this is why we let her go because of this in other words you want to leave with your head high rather than coming out of it and let's say you just ran them upside one side and down the other you want to do it from a position of always maintaining your integrity are we good there yeah we'll have it right so far and your dignity yeah
yeah i think because at the end of the day it's it's it's yours i love what you said it's not about them and what they've done it's about you and where you're going exactly three what i i'm pulling away is that whenever you speak to this person you want to make sure that instead of just focusing specifically on i am leaving this job this this position this very micro moment
yeah i think because at the end of the day it's it's it's yours i love what you said it's not about them and what they've done it's about you and where you're going exactly three what i i'm pulling away is that whenever you speak to this person you want to make sure that instead of just focusing specifically on i am leaving this job this this position this very micro moment
yeah i think because at the end of the day it's it's it's yours i love what you said it's not about them and what they've done it's about you and where you're going exactly three what i i'm pulling away is that whenever you speak to this person you want to make sure that instead of just focusing specifically on i am leaving this job this this position this very micro moment
You need to discuss it with them in terms of a bigger macro element of this is where I'm going in my career. So when you can use words like career or journey or my path or this is my trajectory, then they feel less like this is one little moment, but they are now helping you along that path. And then they'll be much more open to saying, hey, great job. They're going to encourage you.
You need to discuss it with them in terms of a bigger macro element of this is where I'm going in my career. So when you can use words like career or journey or my path or this is my trajectory, then they feel less like this is one little moment, but they are now helping you along that path. And then they'll be much more open to saying, hey, great job. They're going to encourage you.
You need to discuss it with them in terms of a bigger macro element of this is where I'm going in my career. So when you can use words like career or journey or my path or this is my trajectory, then they feel less like this is one little moment, but they are now helping you along that path. And then they'll be much more open to saying, hey, great job. They're going to encourage you.
Hey, I know you're going to have a great... career, I have a lot more going on rather than you just focusing on, hey, I'm quitting this job, bye, and then they're out. I think that's going to be really helpful for a lot of people, Aaron.
Hey, I know you're going to have a great... career, I have a lot more going on rather than you just focusing on, hey, I'm quitting this job, bye, and then they're out. I think that's going to be really helpful for a lot of people, Aaron.
Hey, I know you're going to have a great... career, I have a lot more going on rather than you just focusing on, hey, I'm quitting this job, bye, and then they're out. I think that's going to be really helpful for a lot of people, Aaron.
Yeah, I think that's exactly right. I never feel like, even when people have wronged me, if I can leave that relationship or leave that place, even with just waving at it in the rear view mirror. It's gone, onto the next thing, see ya. It's gonna be much better for you and your own mental health. And that's exactly what Erin's point is here.
Yeah, I think that's exactly right. I never feel like, even when people have wronged me, if I can leave that relationship or leave that place, even with just waving at it in the rear view mirror. It's gone, onto the next thing, see ya. It's gonna be much better for you and your own mental health. And that's exactly what Erin's point is here.
Yeah, I think that's exactly right. I never feel like, even when people have wronged me, if I can leave that relationship or leave that place, even with just waving at it in the rear view mirror. It's gone, onto the next thing, see ya. It's gonna be much better for you and your own mental health. And that's exactly what Erin's point is here.