Jefferson Fisher

You know you're gonna cut off the relationship with that because they're not giving you what you want.

Same thing with everyday human relationships and romantic relationships or dating relationships.

If you are not being direct and stating what you want, you are setting yourself up for failure.

This kind of reminds me of this quote that I heard and it's something to the tune of the single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place, right?

The sharper you can be and say, hey, this is what you said.

This hurt me.

I want you to apologize.

It's kind of the same, it's all the same system.

It's all the same system.

Hey, you left your toys out, your Legos out.

I stepped on one of them and it caused me immense pain.

I need you to pick these up now.

True story for me, many nights, right?

You see how it is bam, bam, bam.

You're sticking the landing every single time.

It could be also as simple as,

I know that you've want this from me.

That's something I'm not comfortable with.

My answer needs to be no.

Period.