Jefferson Fisher

There's a reason why there are multiple pages in a book. There is a bigger story at play. Just because this person shows up in your life for two sentences and one paragraph and one part of the section of this book does not mean they're on the next page and does not mean they're in the next chapter. Some people need to be left at where they are in your story.

There's a reason why when a rocket takes off and goes into space, there are things that get broken off. There are jets that fall off because they cannot go where you're going, right? And that same thing applies in conversation. I'm going to continue to be straight as an arrow in my conversation with you. And if you want to derail this, if you want to say ugly things, that's fine.

There's a reason why when a rocket takes off and goes into space, there are things that get broken off. There are jets that fall off because they cannot go where you're going, right? And that same thing applies in conversation. I'm going to continue to be straight as an arrow in my conversation with you. And if you want to derail this, if you want to say ugly things, that's fine.

There's a reason why when a rocket takes off and goes into space, there are things that get broken off. There are jets that fall off because they cannot go where you're going, right? And that same thing applies in conversation. I'm going to continue to be straight as an arrow in my conversation with you. And if you want to derail this, if you want to say ugly things, that's fine.

I'm not going where you're going. And you can't go where I'm going until you correct that behavior. So three, I want to end this final thought, three, with any time that you need to look for things to say to yourself, is number one, what I like to, the phrases I like to use is to say, I'm not going there. I'm not going there. Somebody brings up something, says something ugly, negative.

I'm not going where you're going. And you can't go where I'm going until you correct that behavior. So three, I want to end this final thought, three, with any time that you need to look for things to say to yourself, is number one, what I like to, the phrases I like to use is to say, I'm not going there. I'm not going there. Somebody brings up something, says something ugly, negative.

I'm not going where you're going. And you can't go where I'm going until you correct that behavior. So three, I want to end this final thought, three, with any time that you need to look for things to say to yourself, is number one, what I like to, the phrases I like to use is to say, I'm not going there. I'm not going there. Somebody brings up something, says something ugly, negative.

Aside from the different techniques we've talked about on this podcast and we're going to continue to talk about, I like using the phrase, I'm not going there. It's a quick way to say where you're going, I am not willing to go. Simple as that. Two is to, I like to say, I see things differently. I remember things differently. I'm not trying to argue their point. I'm arguing their perspective.

Aside from the different techniques we've talked about on this podcast and we're going to continue to talk about, I like using the phrase, I'm not going there. It's a quick way to say where you're going, I am not willing to go. Simple as that. Two is to, I like to say, I see things differently. I remember things differently. I'm not trying to argue their point. I'm arguing their perspective.

Aside from the different techniques we've talked about on this podcast and we're going to continue to talk about, I like using the phrase, I'm not going there. It's a quick way to say where you're going, I am not willing to go. Simple as that. Two is to, I like to say, I see things differently. I remember things differently. I'm not trying to argue their point. I'm arguing their perspective.

And when they're trying to get me to a place that is negative, I'm just letting them know you're not moving me off of where I'm at. And three, what I like to use, and this is something that is one of these statements that keeps you where you are in the conversation, and I like to use this with people who are particularly like bullies, is have two things in mind.

And when they're trying to get me to a place that is negative, I'm just letting them know you're not moving me off of where I'm at. And three, what I like to use, and this is something that is one of these statements that keeps you where you are in the conversation, and I like to use this with people who are particularly like bullies, is have two things in mind.

And when they're trying to get me to a place that is negative, I'm just letting them know you're not moving me off of where I'm at. And three, what I like to use, and this is something that is one of these statements that keeps you where you are in the conversation, and I like to use this with people who are particularly like bullies, is have two things in mind.

One is using the phrase, that's disappointing. That's disappointing. That's disappointing. Somebody says something negative. That's disappointing. They're trying to push you. They're trying to make you the villain. They're yelling something ugly. That's disappointing. Meaning it's disappointing for them and it's disappointing for you because you expected more. You wanted more.

One is using the phrase, that's disappointing. That's disappointing. That's disappointing. Somebody says something negative. That's disappointing. They're trying to push you. They're trying to make you the villain. They're yelling something ugly. That's disappointing. Meaning it's disappointing for them and it's disappointing for you because you expected more. You wanted more.

One is using the phrase, that's disappointing. That's disappointing. That's disappointing. Somebody says something negative. That's disappointing. They're trying to push you. They're trying to make you the villain. They're yelling something ugly. That's disappointing. Meaning it's disappointing for them and it's disappointing for you because you expected more. You wanted more.

And truly, that's what it is. You wanted more from this relationship, from this person. You wanted more of them. Not even so much of expectations, but a standard by which you decide how you will be treated. And when you say, that's below my standard of respect. That's below my standard of respect. Or I do not accept that. I do not accept that. In my tour, I've gone, this is my 10th city.

And truly, that's what it is. You wanted more from this relationship, from this person. You wanted more of them. Not even so much of expectations, but a standard by which you decide how you will be treated. And when you say, that's below my standard of respect. That's below my standard of respect. Or I do not accept that. I do not accept that. In my tour, I've gone, this is my 10th city.

And truly, that's what it is. You wanted more from this relationship, from this person. You wanted more of them. Not even so much of expectations, but a standard by which you decide how you will be treated. And when you say, that's below my standard of respect. That's below my standard of respect. Or I do not accept that. I do not accept that. In my tour, I've gone, this is my 10th city.

My last one I was at was LA and there was this beautiful little girl, sweetest little girl that came in with her mom and she came in with these stuffed animals and she had like six of them. And of course we stopped. Anytime there's a kid, I immediately have them come to the front of the line because as a parent, I understand that I'm not having a child wait two hours, no way. And she came in.