Jefferson Fisher

Be a lighthouse. Be a lighthouse. Yeah, so let's say you and I have been friends and we have a big fallout. Despite what I say, and I'm really trying to mend this relationship, and it's just not happening. You've written me off. It's not working out. That bridge is really burned. Well, that's okay. I'm still going to be a lighthouse. Maybe I'll see you in five years.

Be a lighthouse. Be a lighthouse. Yeah, so let's say you and I have been friends and we have a big fallout. Despite what I say, and I'm really trying to mend this relationship, and it's just not happening. You've written me off. It's not working out. That bridge is really burned. Well, that's okay. I'm still going to be a lighthouse. Maybe I'll see you in five years.

Maybe I'll see you in 15 years when life has happened to both of us. But I'm not going to change the light that I'm going to put out into the world just because our bridge was burned.

Maybe I'll see you in 15 years when life has happened to both of us. But I'm not going to change the light that I'm going to put out into the world just because our bridge was burned.

Yes. Yeah, absolutely. And so when you have these values, and every one of us has a value, and that's how you handle your conversations because it allows you to, I don't have to worry about decisions. the values make the decisions for me.

Yes. Yeah, absolutely. And so when you have these values, and every one of us has a value, and that's how you handle your conversations because it allows you to, I don't have to worry about decisions. the values make the decisions for me.

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paragraph that's gonna punch them in the mouth yeah it's got it always has a bad aftertaste yeah always yeah it may not be right within that moment it but it'll probably be the next morning it'll definitely be a week from now and i mean it's the longer it goes the harder it is to come back together

Self-worth matters of who you're listening to. It's the question of who are you listening to when it's, say, I have the confidence or I can be assertive or I shouldn't have said that. It is the line of who are you listening to in your life that's driving your confidence. Your own value. So much of what we put in self-value is a lie often. It's doubt.

Self-worth matters of who you're listening to. It's the question of who are you listening to when it's, say, I have the confidence or I can be assertive or I shouldn't have said that. It is the line of who are you listening to in your life that's driving your confidence. Your own value. So much of what we put in self-value is a lie often. It's doubt.

We sow a lot of doubt into ourselves and that can grow over time to where when you get that one comment from a troll, all of a sudden you feel like they're telling you the truth. And really all they're doing is speaking to your doubts. And self-worth is something that you can grow into and

We sow a lot of doubt into ourselves and that can grow over time to where when you get that one comment from a troll, all of a sudden you feel like they're telling you the truth. And really all they're doing is speaking to your doubts. And self-worth is something that you can grow into and

i don't want to say lean into it's something you step into because when you can learn how to communicate effectively to stand up for yourself just a little bit you have that self-worth when you can tell somebody no and it works you feel excited about it you feel worthy and you feel like hey i have that within myself a good good job okay now you feel a little bit better and then you continue to grow in that step by step by step but self-worth is very much tied to your communication because again how you communicate

i don't want to say lean into it's something you step into because when you can learn how to communicate effectively to stand up for yourself just a little bit you have that self-worth when you can tell somebody no and it works you feel excited about it you feel worthy and you feel like hey i have that within myself a good good job okay now you feel a little bit better and then you continue to grow in that step by step by step but self-worth is very much tied to your communication because again how you communicate

is who you are and how you feel about yourself.

is who you are and how you feel about yourself.

Oh, yeah. Yes. No doubt. Because it's, who are you listening to? Am I listening to my own doubts? People who are negative, say negative things. And people who are positive, say positive things. It's as simple as that. When you start to doubt yourself, it's because you're listening to your doubts. You're not listening to the positivity.

Oh, yeah. Yes. No doubt. Because it's, who are you listening to? Am I listening to my own doubts? People who are negative, say negative things. And people who are positive, say positive things. It's as simple as that. When you start to doubt yourself, it's because you're listening to your doubts. You're not listening to the positivity.

When you feel anxious, you're listening to the anxiety-inducing thoughts of what-ifs of what-ifs, rather than the comfort in knowing, I know this, I know this, I know this.

When you feel anxious, you're listening to the anxiety-inducing thoughts of what-ifs of what-ifs, rather than the comfort in knowing, I know this, I know this, I know this.