Jefferson Fisher

Worthy is groundbreaking.

Worthy is groundbreaking.

This book is going to change lives.

This book is going to change lives.

When somebody is belittling you or being rude or being disrespectful, what we typically want to do is throw it right back because now we got to win. Instead of that, here's what I would want you to do. One, you're going to have five to seven seconds of silence. Two, you're going to ask them to say it again because a lot of time in arguments, people take it back.

When somebody is belittling you or being rude or being disrespectful, what we typically want to do is throw it right back because now we got to win. Instead of that, here's what I would want you to do. One, you're going to have five to seven seconds of silence. Two, you're going to ask them to say it again because a lot of time in arguments, people take it back.

And three, this is where it gets fun. I want you to say... That's where your real power is because it shows that you're the one in control and they're the ones that are not. I'm Jefferson Fisher. I'm a board-certified trial attorney and I help people resolve conflict, resolve problems.

And three, this is where it gets fun. I want you to say... That's where your real power is because it shows that you're the one in control and they're the ones that are not. I'm Jefferson Fisher. I'm a board-certified trial attorney and I help people resolve conflict, resolve problems.

And I can change two words and change your life just by what you decide to say next because what you say truly has the power to change everything. For example, I teach that you never want to win an argument. When you look to win an argument, you will often lose the relationship. That's your prize, congrats. So instead of seeing arguments as something to win, see them as something to unravel.

And I can change two words and change your life just by what you decide to say next because what you say truly has the power to change everything. For example, I teach that you never want to win an argument. When you look to win an argument, you will often lose the relationship. That's your prize, congrats. So instead of seeing arguments as something to win, see them as something to unravel.

And if you can just ask them the question, what am I missing? I promise you, that is the most effective tool that you can use for a difficult conversation.

And if you can just ask them the question, what am I missing? I promise you, that is the most effective tool that you can use for a difficult conversation.

The secret to dealing with someone you don't like is to... And then could you explain to me this image here? So this is all about how to say no.

The secret to dealing with someone you don't like is to... And then could you explain to me this image here? So this is all about how to say no.

Start with... Then end with... Really?

Start with... Then end with... Really?

I'm Jefferson Fisher. I'm a board-certified trial attorney, and I teach people how to argue less, and say more. And I'm on a mission to help change everything about someone simply by what they decide to say next. What is a trial attorney? Is that a lawyer? Yeah, it's a lawyer, attorney, same thing. And what do you do as a trial attorney? So I help people resolve conflict, resolve problems.

I'm Jefferson Fisher. I'm a board-certified trial attorney, and I teach people how to argue less, and say more. And I'm on a mission to help change everything about someone simply by what they decide to say next. What is a trial attorney? Is that a lawyer? Yeah, it's a lawyer, attorney, same thing. And what do you do as a trial attorney? So I help people resolve conflict, resolve problems.

So if you have a problem with someone, you have a choice, Do you go and just punch them in the mouth or do you sue them? A lot of the times it's something that somebody has hurt you that they cannot give back to you. So the only way they do that in the law is to compensate them with money. And so you can sue just about anybody. So that's how we resolve conflict here a lot in America.

So if you have a problem with someone, you have a choice, Do you go and just punch them in the mouth or do you sue them? A lot of the times it's something that somebody has hurt you that they cannot give back to you. So the only way they do that in the law is to compensate them with money. And so you can sue just about anybody. So that's how we resolve conflict here a lot in America.