Jefferson Fisher

And without the ability to say anything, and say it at least effectively, then they're not going to get what they want. Or you have people who have been in those relationships where they've continually been stepped on, and they're wonderful people inside.

And without the ability to say anything, and say it at least effectively, then they're not going to get what they want. Or you have people who have been in those relationships where they've continually been stepped on, and they're wonderful people inside.

And if they were only with the right person, or if they could express how they wanted and what they needed at that time, their whole world would really change.

And if they were only with the right person, or if they could express how they wanted and what they needed at that time, their whole world would really change.

You have a huge head start in this space. If you're somebody who you may know more than anybody else in that class, but if you don't have the ability to take up the room, if you don't have the ability to capture somebody's attention and hold it and communicate what you need, nobody will listen. And it is an unfair advantage.

You have a huge head start in this space. If you're somebody who you may know more than anybody else in that class, but if you don't have the ability to take up the room, if you don't have the ability to capture somebody's attention and hold it and communicate what you need, nobody will listen. And it is an unfair advantage.

The outcomes are you're going to start to be negative on yourself. You're going to start to talk to yourself in very negative ways. And really, it's a hopeless feeling. You're going to run into relationships where you're running into the same problem. You're going to go into jobs where you start to run into the same problem. It's almost cyclical.

The outcomes are you're going to start to be negative on yourself. You're going to start to talk to yourself in very negative ways. And really, it's a hopeless feeling. You're going to run into relationships where you're running into the same problem. You're going to go into jobs where you start to run into the same problem. It's almost cyclical.

where you're not being able to say what you need to say. That makes a huge difference when you say, look, I'm not going to allow myself to be treated this way anymore.

where you're not being able to say what you need to say. That makes a huge difference when you say, look, I'm not going to allow myself to be treated this way anymore.

When you don't even know how to voice your own boundaries or enforce those boundaries or things of how you want and where you want to go in your life, what you're going to find is you're just going to be unhappier more often and more unsatisfied. And that's a really hopeless feeling.

When you don't even know how to voice your own boundaries or enforce those boundaries or things of how you want and where you want to go in your life, what you're going to find is you're just going to be unhappier more often and more unsatisfied. And that's a really hopeless feeling.

No.

No.

Yeah, they come to me and they watch my videos not to fix or learn from what happened in the last conversation. They're coming to me because they want to know how to handle the next conversation. And what I do is I give them these snippets, the same way I would in an opening argument or a closing argument. I go with three main points.

Yeah, they come to me and they watch my videos not to fix or learn from what happened in the last conversation. They're coming to me because they want to know how to handle the next conversation. And what I do is I give them these snippets, the same way I would in an opening argument or a closing argument. I go with three main points.

I try to condense a whole lot of information into something that has very little. So you take what would be 40 pages and you turn it into two sentences and you turn that into one sentence. You turn to seven words. And what I do is I give them the sense of, hey, I can do that. I can do that. All I have to do is switch this word.

I try to condense a whole lot of information into something that has very little. So you take what would be 40 pages and you turn it into two sentences and you turn that into one sentence. You turn to seven words. And what I do is I give them the sense of, hey, I can do that. I can do that. All I have to do is switch this word.

Oh, I can see the impact of just flipping one little word or reversing the way I'm giving that sentence. And it creates a very different outcome every time.

Oh, I can see the impact of just flipping one little word or reversing the way I'm giving that sentence. And it creates a very different outcome every time.