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Jefferson Fisher

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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

It was like water off a duck's back.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

So immediately as the viewer, I go, well, that can't be true then because Charlemagne doesn't seem to care.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

Exactly.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

No, because I'm not wearing a purple shirt for anyone listening on Apple or Spotify.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

And this sort of speaks to the fact that your reaction determines how onlookers will interpret everything that's happening.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

There's a lot of people listening right now that are a long way away from that.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

Very easily triggered, seeking justice, you know, whatever it might be.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

For those people, is it like a muscle they have to build or is there, what is the journey to getting to this level of sort of mastery?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

We are emotional creatures and we're hormonal creatures.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

So how do you think about our emotions, our hormones, our health, our physical, cognitive state as it relates to like walking into the courtroom and being ready?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

Because if I've had zero hours sleep and I'm hungry and whatever else, and I've had an argument and I'm stressed about something, it's going to be significantly harder to show up and be a great communicator and win the argument against somebody.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

So do you think about these things?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

And how do you prepare to be ready for battle?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

And do you think people should do that in their own interpersonal relationships, which is just call out their state more?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

Women and men are very different in many ways.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

We're very different in many ways.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

Men are, I don't know, it feels like men just, you know, and again, I'm stereotyping here, so it's not all men and people are different.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

But just speaking generally, the stereotype is that men are typically a bit more emotionally composed or, shall I say, flat emotionally.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

And women have more emotional fluctuations.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You’ll Divorce in 10 Years!

One could look at hormone changes throughout the month and talk about why that might be, et cetera, et cetera.