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Jefferson Fisher

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Your dad's wrong.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Your parents are wrong.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Your grandmother is wrong.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

That thing that you went to when you were a kid, that was a big crystallizing moment in your life that set your belief system is all wrong.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

And it's become part of your identity.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

And so instead of me fighting, I think I'm fighting an opinion.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

I'm not.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

I'm fighting now your identity.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

And people will go to the ends of the earth.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

They will close off everything.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

They will box their ears to prevent having to change one second of their identity.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Why?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

Because that change feels extremely scary.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

That's why evidence doesn't work.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

When you show people statistics on things, how can you possibly believe this?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

And they go, I just, no, it doesn't matter.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

They will justify it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

They will flip it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

They will find ways to take what supports them or reject anything that doesn't.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)

It's because it's now part of their identity.