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Jefferson Fisher

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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

And at least people wondering, is this the end of the sentence or is this a question?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Not really sure why, because the tone positions it that way.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

It makes it hard.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

What I find so fascinating personally for me, because I'm a nerd about communication is how the word doesn't change.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

But if the tone does, it's a totally different context.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Just take the word.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Okay.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

If I say, okay.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Or, okay.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Or, okay.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Same word every single time.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Very different communication.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Very different message that gets sent across.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

And you add in text, which is a very low emotion medium, then there's nothing but a lot of miscommunication to be had over text.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

If you want to sound more assertive, rather than going up with your tone, I want you to go down with your tone.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

Now, that does not mean you need to have a deep voice whatsoever.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

You can have a higher register, a higher pitch, and you can still go lower when you talk.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

It has a way of

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

putting finality, like a period added, rather than a question mark.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Sound Assertive Without Sounding Rude

So if you want to sound more assertive, less question marks and more periods.