Jefferson Fisher
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And all of a sudden, the dynamic changes.
Now you're the one who sounds in control and the other person sounds desperate.
And now, how many times have you been in that argument and you're wanting somebody to say something else mean and they don't?
And all of a sudden, you're the one left holding it.
There's nothing special.
You just chose to add silence, which then controls the pace.
And then ultimately allows you to control that moment.
Make sure that you're the one that's confident, controlled and not grasping for it.
So the more when you say hurtful things, you give away your control.
Every time you are, you're just giving it away.
Jefferson, man, I could literally talk to you all day.
Man, Nick, I don't have the words, man.
That sounds so cool.
I'm honored.
I'm blessed.
And I'm pumped.
Let's do it.
Can't wait.
Oh, you know, what's been hitting me lately is a vanilla oat milk latte.
I never thought I'd like oat milk, but it's good.