Jefferson Fisher

Everybody in the courtroom knew he was a narcissistic type of behavior. Now, what did I do in that case? I referred to the jury. He made an opinion, and I said, and you think the jury's going to like this opinion, is what I said. I said, and you think the jury's going to like this opinion. And he almost instantly, you could see he kind of just did the calculation in his head,

Everybody in the courtroom knew he was a narcissistic type of behavior. Now, what did I do in that case? I referred to the jury. He made an opinion, and I said, and you think the jury's going to like this opinion, is what I said. I said, and you think the jury's going to like this opinion. And he almost instantly, you could see he kind of just did the calculation in his head,

Everybody in the courtroom knew he was a narcissistic type of behavior. Now, what did I do in that case? I referred to the jury. He made an opinion, and I said, and you think the jury's going to like this opinion, is what I said. I said, and you think the jury's going to like this opinion. And he almost instantly, you could see he kind of just did the calculation in his head,

And all of a sudden pivoted to say, well, I mean, well, it's not so much about like, you know, what I what I try to do in my experience in my field. And he went on to just talk about himself and see what I did was I talked about the jury. How do you apply this to your own life? They don't care about you. They care about the audience.

And all of a sudden pivoted to say, well, I mean, well, it's not so much about like, you know, what I what I try to do in my experience in my field. And he went on to just talk about himself and see what I did was I talked about the jury. How do you apply this to your own life? They don't care about you. They care about the audience.

And all of a sudden pivoted to say, well, I mean, well, it's not so much about like, you know, what I what I try to do in my experience in my field. And he went on to just talk about himself and see what I did was I talked about the jury. How do you apply this to your own life? They don't care about you. They care about the audience.

When you can say something to the tune of others and people have used this tactic many times. This is what this is how you do it. So let's break it down. somebody says something that's narcissistic, or a narcissist is talking to you and they say something, you respond like this.

When you can say something to the tune of others and people have used this tactic many times. This is what this is how you do it. So let's break it down. somebody says something that's narcissistic, or a narcissist is talking to you and they say something, you respond like this.

When you can say something to the tune of others and people have used this tactic many times. This is what this is how you do it. So let's break it down. somebody says something that's narcissistic, or a narcissist is talking to you and they say something, you respond like this.

If you think that's a good look, or if you think others are going to like that, or I wonder what other people would think about this. I wonder what your friend would think about this. You name that friend. I'm not sure if others would agree. Anytime that you talk about others or people,

If you think that's a good look, or if you think others are going to like that, or I wonder what other people would think about this. I wonder what your friend would think about this. You name that friend. I'm not sure if others would agree. Anytime that you talk about others or people,

If you think that's a good look, or if you think others are going to like that, or I wonder what other people would think about this. I wonder what your friend would think about this. You name that friend. I'm not sure if others would agree. Anytime that you talk about others or people,

I have seen many, many times they will change their behavior almost instantly because it reminds them they're not talking to you. They're talking to the crowd, their people, and they will adjust their opinion, adjust their tone to fit the audience, even if it's invisible. In fact, especially when it's invisible. You just think all eyes are on them.

I have seen many, many times they will change their behavior almost instantly because it reminds them they're not talking to you. They're talking to the crowd, their people, and they will adjust their opinion, adjust their tone to fit the audience, even if it's invisible. In fact, especially when it's invisible. You just think all eyes are on them.

I have seen many, many times they will change their behavior almost instantly because it reminds them they're not talking to you. They're talking to the crowd, their people, and they will adjust their opinion, adjust their tone to fit the audience, even if it's invisible. In fact, especially when it's invisible. You just think all eyes are on them.

Anytime you can use the phrase, well, if you think others are going to agree with you, see, it's very simple to say. Hey, look, if you think others are going to agree with you, or if you, I wonder what other people would think about this. I wonder what other people would think about the way you just said that. They will turn. They will turn it. They will make it better.

Anytime you can use the phrase, well, if you think others are going to agree with you, see, it's very simple to say. Hey, look, if you think others are going to agree with you, or if you, I wonder what other people would think about this. I wonder what other people would think about the way you just said that. They will turn. They will turn it. They will make it better.

Anytime you can use the phrase, well, if you think others are going to agree with you, see, it's very simple to say. Hey, look, if you think others are going to agree with you, or if you, I wonder what other people would think about this. I wonder what other people would think about the way you just said that. They will turn. They will turn it. They will make it better.

They will make it sound better. They will make it sound more empathetic, make it sound more sensitive or sympathetic without actually exhibiting any of the real character traits. So when you talk about others, the takeaway here is when you talk about others, they will pay more attention to what they are saying and give a more productive output than when they think they're just talking to you.

They will make it sound better. They will make it sound more empathetic, make it sound more sensitive or sympathetic without actually exhibiting any of the real character traits. So when you talk about others, the takeaway here is when you talk about others, they will pay more attention to what they are saying and give a more productive output than when they think they're just talking to you.