Jefferson Fisher

That is a recipe for disaster.

When there's unspoken expectation and unspoken reaction to things, you can tell that there's something in between you.

I want you to say it out loud.

And I'm not saying you have to like read a magic ball and tell what's going on.

It's as simple as saying, I feel like there's something between us right now.

I feel like there's something unspoken.

I feel like there's something more that you want to say.

I feel... Oh, here's a good one, Daylon.

If...

I use this a lot when these kind of edgier moments where you're not really sure how to gauge what the reaction is going to be.

So instead of using really concrete, specific words, I use words that are a little bit more...

Hmm, ubiquitous words that have a little bit more give to them.

For example, you can go with distances and weather.

Those are my two favorite.

So what does that mean?

Instead of saying, what's wrong with you?

What's wrong with you?

You're acting like something's wrong.

I could say, you feel really far from me right now.

I'm feeling a distance between this.