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Jefferson Fisher

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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

So if you're wondering, I'm saying that to tell you, if you're sitting there thinking, am I the narcissist? If you are asking yourself that question, you are not. If you're asking yourself that question, you are not. All right, the takeaway here. Number one, understand when you're talking to a narcissist, you're playing a game. It's praise or provoke.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

So if you're wondering, I'm saying that to tell you, if you're sitting there thinking, am I the narcissist? If you are asking yourself that question, you are not. If you're asking yourself that question, you are not. All right, the takeaway here. Number one, understand when you're talking to a narcissist, you're playing a game. It's praise or provoke.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

Understand that you're in that game and it's rigged. You cannot beat it. Two, when it comes to responding rather than engaging and inciting more of a conflict, which again feeds into the game, you're going to use short answers.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

Understand that you're in that game and it's rigged. You cannot beat it. Two, when it comes to responding rather than engaging and inciting more of a conflict, which again feeds into the game, you're going to use short answers.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

Understand that you're in that game and it's rigged. You cannot beat it. Two, when it comes to responding rather than engaging and inciting more of a conflict, which again feeds into the game, you're going to use short answers.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

controlled flat statements and three if you need to use phrases that are going to give attention or recall to the crowd talk about others talk about people and they will adjust it rather than thinking they're just talking to you so use what you know about narcissists and use that to your advantage in a way that is safe all right cool

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

controlled flat statements and three if you need to use phrases that are going to give attention or recall to the crowd talk about others talk about people and they will adjust it rather than thinking they're just talking to you so use what you know about narcissists and use that to your advantage in a way that is safe all right cool

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

controlled flat statements and three if you need to use phrases that are going to give attention or recall to the crowd talk about others talk about people and they will adjust it rather than thinking they're just talking to you so use what you know about narcissists and use that to your advantage in a way that is safe all right cool

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

If you enjoy podcasts and episodes like this to improve your communication, again, I'm going to ask you to please follow this podcast. My book, The Next Conversation, is out. You can find the links down in the show notes. And if you are wanting to continue to improve your communication further and practice it, the School of Communication is live. Again, the link is in the show notes. All right.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

If you enjoy podcasts and episodes like this to improve your communication, again, I'm going to ask you to please follow this podcast. My book, The Next Conversation, is out. You can find the links down in the show notes. And if you are wanting to continue to improve your communication further and practice it, the School of Communication is live. Again, the link is in the show notes. All right.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

If you enjoy podcasts and episodes like this to improve your communication, again, I'm going to ask you to please follow this podcast. My book, The Next Conversation, is out. You can find the links down in the show notes. And if you are wanting to continue to improve your communication further and practice it, the School of Communication is live. Again, the link is in the show notes. All right.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

As always, you can try that and follow me.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

As always, you can try that and follow me.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

As always, you can try that and follow me.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Hey everybody, welcome to a special episode and Ask Me Anything podcast episode where we're going to go over some questions that were asked in response to my newsletter that I send out every week. Questions about some romantic relationship stuff, how to be a better listener, and how to deal with liars. I'm ready to get right into it. You ready?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Hey everybody, welcome to a special episode and Ask Me Anything podcast episode where we're going to go over some questions that were asked in response to my newsletter that I send out every week. Questions about some romantic relationship stuff, how to be a better listener, and how to deal with liars. I'm ready to get right into it. You ready?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Hey everybody, welcome to a special episode and Ask Me Anything podcast episode where we're going to go over some questions that were asked in response to my newsletter that I send out every week. Questions about some romantic relationship stuff, how to be a better listener, and how to deal with liars. I'm ready to get right into it. You ready?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher Podcast, where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation the one that changes everything. I'm going to ask you to please, if you would, find the subscribe or like or heart wherever you're listening or whatever platform you're listening to. I'm going to ask you to click it because I'm giving you a promise, and that promise is to make you a better communicator.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher Podcast, where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation the one that changes everything. I'm going to ask you to please, if you would, find the subscribe or like or heart wherever you're listening or whatever platform you're listening to. I'm going to ask you to click it because I'm giving you a promise, and that promise is to make you a better communicator.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher Podcast, where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation the one that changes everything. I'm going to ask you to please, if you would, find the subscribe or like or heart wherever you're listening or whatever platform you're listening to. I'm going to ask you to click it because I'm giving you a promise, and that promise is to make you a better communicator.