Jefferson Fisher

You'll let that person work with you for six months longer than you need to because you're not sure how you need to end it. You talk to somebody and they're like, are you breaking up with that person? Like, yeah, I need to. I just, I don't really know how. And it is such a disservice to you. Please stop. I'm going to teach you how to do this. Instead of this...

You'll let that person work with you for six months longer than you need to because you're not sure how you need to end it. You talk to somebody and they're like, are you breaking up with that person? Like, yeah, I need to. I just, I don't really know how. And it is such a disservice to you. Please stop. I'm going to teach you how to do this. Instead of this...

A horrible, this mush, this quick saying of, I don't know how I'm going to feel. You have a pit in your stomach when you're brushing your teeth. You're on the commute. Whenever you know you're going to meet with that person, your heart's just beating in your chest. Stop. Stop. We're going to clear that up. Number one. First problem is the small talk. Number one, do not begin with small talk.

A horrible, this mush, this quick saying of, I don't know how I'm going to feel. You have a pit in your stomach when you're brushing your teeth. You're on the commute. Whenever you know you're going to meet with that person, your heart's just beating in your chest. Stop. Stop. We're going to clear that up. Number one. First problem is the small talk. Number one, do not begin with small talk.

A horrible, this mush, this quick saying of, I don't know how I'm going to feel. You have a pit in your stomach when you're brushing your teeth. You're on the commute. Whenever you know you're going to meet with that person, your heart's just beating in your chest. Stop. Stop. We're going to clear that up. Number one. First problem is the small talk. Number one, do not begin with small talk.

When somebody's coming to sit down with you and you're like, hey, so how are you? Oh, you're good? Yeah, how's your pickleball? Did you see that bird the other day? Yeah, man, we always like to say that's crazy. Oh, that's crazy. There's nothing crazy about it. stop doing that.

When somebody's coming to sit down with you and you're like, hey, so how are you? Oh, you're good? Yeah, how's your pickleball? Did you see that bird the other day? Yeah, man, we always like to say that's crazy. Oh, that's crazy. There's nothing crazy about it. stop doing that.

When somebody's coming to sit down with you and you're like, hey, so how are you? Oh, you're good? Yeah, how's your pickleball? Did you see that bird the other day? Yeah, man, we always like to say that's crazy. Oh, that's crazy. There's nothing crazy about it. stop doing that.

The small talk is one of the worst pain points because you as a listener, if you've ever been on the other side of this, you know exactly how it feels. You're like, what's wrong? Something's off. I can tell. We have this sixth sense about us where we go, nope, something's not right. This is a setup. This is a trap. What's going on? And you're just kind of waiting for the hammer to drop.

The small talk is one of the worst pain points because you as a listener, if you've ever been on the other side of this, you know exactly how it feels. You're like, what's wrong? Something's off. I can tell. We have this sixth sense about us where we go, nope, something's not right. This is a setup. This is a trap. What's going on? And you're just kind of waiting for the hammer to drop.

The small talk is one of the worst pain points because you as a listener, if you've ever been on the other side of this, you know exactly how it feels. You're like, what's wrong? Something's off. I can tell. We have this sixth sense about us where we go, nope, something's not right. This is a setup. This is a trap. What's going on? And you're just kind of waiting for the hammer to drop.

And what happens is there's small talk, small talk, small talk, and they give you the phrase. You ready? The phrase is, so listen, boom, and it just tanks from there. They know the bottom has just dropped out. They know that it's the worst thing that could possibly happen. It's not genuine, it's not kind, and it's not honest. Stop doing it.

And what happens is there's small talk, small talk, small talk, and they give you the phrase. You ready? The phrase is, so listen, boom, and it just tanks from there. They know the bottom has just dropped out. They know that it's the worst thing that could possibly happen. It's not genuine, it's not kind, and it's not honest. Stop doing it.

And what happens is there's small talk, small talk, small talk, and they give you the phrase. You ready? The phrase is, so listen, boom, and it just tanks from there. They know the bottom has just dropped out. They know that it's the worst thing that could possibly happen. It's not genuine, it's not kind, and it's not honest. Stop doing it.

Instead, in this small talk, what I want you to do is to label the conversation.

Instead, in this small talk, what I want you to do is to label the conversation.

Instead, in this small talk, what I want you to do is to label the conversation.

label the conversation you're gonna just you gotta turn on the cold water y'all you gotta turn on the cold water sometimes the the sometimes the the most kind thing you can do is be the most direct that you can be meaning when you delay the hard conversation you are only making it worse for both of you because you are you are not operating in a state of authenticity the quicker you can get to that main point i just hit my knuckles so hard

label the conversation you're gonna just you gotta turn on the cold water y'all you gotta turn on the cold water sometimes the the sometimes the the most kind thing you can do is be the most direct that you can be meaning when you delay the hard conversation you are only making it worse for both of you because you are you are not operating in a state of authenticity the quicker you can get to that main point i just hit my knuckles so hard

label the conversation you're gonna just you gotta turn on the cold water y'all you gotta turn on the cold water sometimes the the sometimes the the most kind thing you can do is be the most direct that you can be meaning when you delay the hard conversation you are only making it worse for both of you because you are you are not operating in a state of authenticity the quicker you can get to that main point i just hit my knuckles so hard