Jefferson Fisher

You're ripping off the bandaid. Number two, get to the point immediately. We need to go our separate ways. I need to let you go. You're off the team. we need to break up. And three is own the I. It's not you, all the things you've done wrong. It's me.

You're ripping off the bandaid. Number two, get to the point immediately. We need to go our separate ways. I need to let you go. You're off the team. we need to break up. And three is own the I. It's not you, all the things you've done wrong. It's me.

You're ripping off the bandaid. Number two, get to the point immediately. We need to go our separate ways. I need to let you go. You're off the team. we need to break up. And three is own the I. It's not you, all the things you've done wrong. It's me.

I'm talking about me, and I'm going to add on the positive of the things that I enjoyed about us that is going to be where it is, but it is not going to be continuing on in the future. Far better than the small talk of, oh, you good? So listen, don't do that. It's not kind. Let's be kind in our conversations, especially when it's time for you to break them off. And that's just normal.

I'm talking about me, and I'm going to add on the positive of the things that I enjoyed about us that is going to be where it is, but it is not going to be continuing on in the future. Far better than the small talk of, oh, you good? So listen, don't do that. It's not kind. Let's be kind in our conversations, especially when it's time for you to break them off. And that's just normal.

I'm talking about me, and I'm going to add on the positive of the things that I enjoyed about us that is going to be where it is, but it is not going to be continuing on in the future. Far better than the small talk of, oh, you good? So listen, don't do that. It's not kind. Let's be kind in our conversations, especially when it's time for you to break them off. And that's just normal.

That's natural. Now, I want to add on this bit about, there might be times where you think, oh, I can't. I can't do that. They're going to hate me. They're going to hate me. Let's talk about that. They're not. They're not. I mean, they might. Right? They might, depending on it. What do I know? But they can't do it forever. And you can't control that. That's my point.

That's natural. Now, I want to add on this bit about, there might be times where you think, oh, I can't. I can't do that. They're going to hate me. They're going to hate me. Let's talk about that. They're not. They're not. I mean, they might. Right? They might, depending on it. What do I know? But they can't do it forever. And you can't control that. That's my point.

That's natural. Now, I want to add on this bit about, there might be times where you think, oh, I can't. I can't do that. They're going to hate me. They're going to hate me. Let's talk about that. They're not. They're not. I mean, they might. Right? They might, depending on it. What do I know? But they can't do it forever. And you can't control that. That's my point.

You can't control somebody's feelings. My dad would tell me anytime I could remember not wanting to do something because of being afraid of somebody else's reaction to things. And I would say, well, dad, they're gonna be mad about it. And he go, Yeah, I guess I'll be mad. I said, they're gonna be disappointed. He go, Yeah, I, I guess I'll be disappointed.

You can't control somebody's feelings. My dad would tell me anytime I could remember not wanting to do something because of being afraid of somebody else's reaction to things. And I would say, well, dad, they're gonna be mad about it. And he go, Yeah, I guess I'll be mad. I said, they're gonna be disappointed. He go, Yeah, I, I guess I'll be disappointed.

You can't control somebody's feelings. My dad would tell me anytime I could remember not wanting to do something because of being afraid of somebody else's reaction to things. And I would say, well, dad, they're gonna be mad about it. And he go, Yeah, I guess I'll be mad. I said, they're gonna be disappointed. He go, Yeah, I, I guess I'll be disappointed.

And it was such a way for me to start thinking of the, yeah, you know what, it's true. I can't do anything with their feelings. Yeah, they're going to be sad. Yeah, they're going to be sad. And then life's going to continue on. Yeah, they're going to be disappointed. Then life's going to continue on. Can't control anything about their opinions.

And it was such a way for me to start thinking of the, yeah, you know what, it's true. I can't do anything with their feelings. Yeah, they're going to be sad. Yeah, they're going to be sad. And then life's going to continue on. Yeah, they're going to be disappointed. Then life's going to continue on. Can't control anything about their opinions.

And it was such a way for me to start thinking of the, yeah, you know what, it's true. I can't do anything with their feelings. Yeah, they're going to be sad. Yeah, they're going to be sad. And then life's going to continue on. Yeah, they're going to be disappointed. Then life's going to continue on. Can't control anything about their opinions.

For you to say, what if they're not going to like me? Because that's why we delay it. We're disappointed or worried about their reaction. How are they going to feel about it? But you can't carry that. Don't carry the weight of their own feelings. Don't feel their feelings for them. Don't feel their feelings for them. Best thing you can do is be as direct as you can be.

For you to say, what if they're not going to like me? Because that's why we delay it. We're disappointed or worried about their reaction. How are they going to feel about it? But you can't carry that. Don't carry the weight of their own feelings. Don't feel their feelings for them. Don't feel their feelings for them. Best thing you can do is be as direct as you can be.

For you to say, what if they're not going to like me? Because that's why we delay it. We're disappointed or worried about their reaction. How are they going to feel about it? But you can't carry that. Don't carry the weight of their own feelings. Don't feel their feelings for them. Don't feel their feelings for them. Best thing you can do is be as direct as you can be.

That's how you end a relationship, whether it's romantic, friendship, work-wise. And this is where I have to say, it's time for us to go. You've been great. Listen, you've been great. But it's time for us to end the episode. Thank you for listening. As always, if you'd like to continue on in the conversation, improving your communications, You can go to my social media or my membership.

That's how you end a relationship, whether it's romantic, friendship, work-wise. And this is where I have to say, it's time for us to go. You've been great. Listen, you've been great. But it's time for us to end the episode. Thank you for listening. As always, if you'd like to continue on in the conversation, improving your communications, You can go to my social media or my membership.