Jefferson Fisher

It's the multiverse.

We have two different timelines happening because now that second one only cares about accuracy, meaning you're having an argument

about whether you always or never did the thing.

And so when I say accuracy, it's about, are they saying something that is correct?

And as soon as the other person goes, no, actually, I don't always do that.

It stinks because you're like, I don't want to talk about this.

I want to talk about the issue itself.

And that's where you get caught up.

So what's, Jefferson, what's the point here?

The point here is that you don't use them.

And I know that sounds easier said than done, but...

It happens all the time.

It happens in my relationships.

It happens in my family's relationships and my friends' relationships.

It happens among all of us.

What I'm saying is it will happen.

The key here is quick to fix it.

So what are some ways that we can do that instead if you catch yourself using that?

One is if you catch yourself saying always and never, be the bigger person and grab it back.

If you say always,