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Jemma Sbeg

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The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

So don't wait to text them, don't pretend you're not interested, show up the way that you would want someone else to show up for you without the games. I think in the same vein if someone is playing games with you, I want you to remember that a mixed signal is still a signal.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

So don't wait to text them, don't pretend you're not interested, show up the way that you would want someone else to show up for you without the games. I think in the same vein if someone is playing games with you, I want you to remember that a mixed signal is still a signal.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

If they are making you feel anxious or uncomfortable, if they are causing you to doubt yourself, I need you to detach and pull all of your energy back. I need you to show them very clearly this kind of behavior will not get my attention and it will not get my respect and it most certainly will not get me. And honestly, I actually don't think it's a bad thing to just say that to someone.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

If they are making you feel anxious or uncomfortable, if they are causing you to doubt yourself, I need you to detach and pull all of your energy back. I need you to show them very clearly this kind of behavior will not get my attention and it will not get my respect and it most certainly will not get me. And honestly, I actually don't think it's a bad thing to just say that to someone.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

If they are making you feel anxious or uncomfortable, if they are causing you to doubt yourself, I need you to detach and pull all of your energy back. I need you to show them very clearly this kind of behavior will not get my attention and it will not get my respect and it most certainly will not get me. And honestly, I actually don't think it's a bad thing to just say that to someone.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

to just say I don't like these games and I'll be honest when I met my partner when I met my boyfriend Tom he he's a lawyer I don't think I've said that before but he's a lawyer and so he's very very busy and when we first started dating like we would text a lot and I wouldn't hear from him for like you know four hours and I'd be like oh my god he's playing games

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

to just say I don't like these games and I'll be honest when I met my partner when I met my boyfriend Tom he he's a lawyer I don't think I've said that before but he's a lawyer and so he's very very busy and when we first started dating like we would text a lot and I wouldn't hear from him for like you know four hours and I'd be like oh my god he's playing games

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

to just say I don't like these games and I'll be honest when I met my partner when I met my boyfriend Tom he he's a lawyer I don't think I've said that before but he's a lawyer and so he's very very busy and when we first started dating like we would text a lot and I wouldn't hear from him for like you know four hours and I'd be like oh my god he's playing games

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

and so I said to him I was like hey I need you to text me back quicker because this makes me feel really insecure and it makes me feel like you're not interested so if you're playing games with this like I'm not interested in it and if it's something else that I need to understand about your communication style let me know and that's how I found out that my boyfriend actually has a really healthy relationship with his phone and I perhaps do not

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

and so I said to him I was like hey I need you to text me back quicker because this makes me feel really insecure and it makes me feel like you're not interested so if you're playing games with this like I'm not interested in it and if it's something else that I need to understand about your communication style let me know and that's how I found out that my boyfriend actually has a really healthy relationship with his phone and I perhaps do not

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

and so I said to him I was like hey I need you to text me back quicker because this makes me feel really insecure and it makes me feel like you're not interested so if you're playing games with this like I'm not interested in it and if it's something else that I need to understand about your communication style let me know and that's how I found out that my boyfriend actually has a really healthy relationship with his phone and I perhaps do not

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

But yes, please prioritize self-respect over temporary feelings. If someone is disrespecting you playing games or they don't align with your standards, walk away. I don't think your self-worth is up for negotiation. The way they treat you in the beginning is the way they're going to treat you for the entire relationship.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

But yes, please prioritize self-respect over temporary feelings. If someone is disrespecting you playing games or they don't align with your standards, walk away. I don't think your self-worth is up for negotiation. The way they treat you in the beginning is the way they're going to treat you for the entire relationship.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

But yes, please prioritize self-respect over temporary feelings. If someone is disrespecting you playing games or they don't align with your standards, walk away. I don't think your self-worth is up for negotiation. The way they treat you in the beginning is the way they're going to treat you for the entire relationship.

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

It's not going to get any better than the early days when they're trying to court you. Please remember that. If you're someone who does still find that they put the rose colored glasses on, this is my litmus test. This is the question I would ask myself. Is this the story that I would tell about my soulmate?

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

It's not going to get any better than the early days when they're trying to court you. Please remember that. If you're someone who does still find that they put the rose colored glasses on, this is my litmus test. This is the question I would ask myself. Is this the story that I would tell about my soulmate?

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

It's not going to get any better than the early days when they're trying to court you. Please remember that. If you're someone who does still find that they put the rose colored glasses on, this is my litmus test. This is the question I would ask myself. Is this the story that I would tell about my soulmate?

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

If in the future we had children and our children asked about how we first met and how we first started dating, would I want to tell them the truth about this story first?

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

If in the future we had children and our children asked about how we first met and how we first started dating, would I want to tell them the truth about this story first?

The Psychology of your 20s
281. Reclaim your power in dating

If in the future we had children and our children asked about how we first met and how we first started dating, would I want to tell them the truth about this story first?