Jen Sincero

And this is why I'm going to totally go off on a segue here, but this is why the number one question I get at my talks is, what do you do when the people closest to you don't support your growth?

And the main reason they don't support it because you're killing off the person they love.

I mean, think about that.

Like you're changing who you are and they're comfortable with who you are and they feel that's their reality too is caught up in who you are being.

So when you decide to change, you're killing off their buddy or their whatever and you're screwing up their reality because you fit into theirs.

Wow.

So it's really a thing.

Yeah, it is.

It's very lonely.

Well, first of all, really make the decision.

Are you going to stay small and shrink just so that you can be around those people and make them comfortable?

Or is your comfort more important and your growth more important?

And also, it doesn't serve them either.

Like, if you all stay at the same low level...

Because not everybody ditches you.

There are some people that are just like, oh, my God, you inspire the crap out of me.

I'm going to do it, too.

It's true.

Right.

So focus.