Jen

So you don't really share a lot, or at least I didn't with a lot of people.

And so having that episode in particular, and just for years, you guys talking about it has been more impactful than, you know, on both me and my husband.

And I think it's apropos that his 10-year anniversary is in a few weeks and I get to talk to you guys.

He's really mad that he can't be here.

He is in San Diego for a work trip, but he told me to say hi.

His name is Justin.

Yes, I have.

constantly annoy our kids one of us will say hey y'all from like across the house oh that's so cute my kids are gonna lip out when they hear this because i didn't tell him i was doing this what's their names let me shout them out so my daughter is stella and my son is beckett beckett great name and beckett shout out solids guys raise as much hell as you can that's my advice

Good.

How are you?

I'm Jen.

I'm 36.

And I'm wondering if I should give my ex-best friend another chance.

No, no.

Oh, God, really?

OK, so we were best friends from age four preschool through elementary school, middle school, high school and college, even though we went to two separate high schools and colleges through a little bit of early adulthood to post-college as well.

And, you know, we were like as close as best friends could be who have known each other for that long.

The entire time, though, she's been a little flaky, not a little flaky, a lot flaky, like hard to make plans with, won't commit to specific plans, you know, will say she's going to be somewhere and then bails last minute.

Correct.

So same behavior from when she was a child through when we were last close in early adulthood.