Jen

Totally.

Yep.

Yeah, definitely.

I mean, I could get into more specifics of when I was let down by her and when I was almost going to let her in and didn't, but it doesn't matter.

yeah um no it kind of doesn't like you know i would give you like examples of like when like i was like counting on her and she didn't follow through but all it's like taught me is like that's not the person you count on for the big stuff there you go and to follow and i you know you started this you know like well she's older now i assume she's let's assume she hasn't changed do you have people in your life that you can count on for big things

Yeah, totally.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I guess like, I just wonder what that kind of friendship looks like.

Cause we've never been like casual friends before.

It's been like ride or dies to nothing.

You're 36.

Yeah.

Yeah.

you know like so you know he's got his life he's got two kids you know we're busy yeah so if if that's all she is that i think that would work well what do you suggest if like we do like start getting closer and i can kind of feel us like creeping back into like the lifelong friends we were once before you know that's gonna like but who is who is she replacing then

There is no one to replace because I don't like have any friends in my life to that degree who's like known me throughout so many different phases.

Yeah, yeah.

Like my husband and I have a close group of friends that my husband and I share.

So them.

Yeah.