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Jennifer Selby Long

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Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

But there is ample evidence that a great deal of attention on what's working and doing more of that is correlated with getting to that organizational outcome. In the classic sense, we're going to define those outcomes as, for example, a positive change in the stock price. But that's a really hard one for, say, an individual employee to connect to their progress through the change, isn't it?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

But there is ample evidence that a great deal of attention on what's working and doing more of that is correlated with getting to that organizational outcome. In the classic sense, we're going to define those outcomes as, for example, a positive change in the stock price. But that's a really hard one for, say, an individual employee to connect to their progress through the change, isn't it?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

That's so big, right? One person out of hundreds or thousands saying the stock price moved after we were able to implement this large scale system, but it's hard to see the individual connection. So I think that also speaks to something that is so extraordinarily important, which is connecting your vision to their big whys, not yours, not the company's.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

That's so big, right? One person out of hundreds or thousands saying the stock price moved after we were able to implement this large scale system, but it's hard to see the individual connection. So I think that also speaks to something that is so extraordinarily important, which is connecting your vision to their big whys, not yours, not the company's.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

right they're being wise what it goes back to that personal vision what does that success mean to you individually not just the company right but for you as an individual what's the alignment there people will move mountains for you if they really understand how this large-scale change is connected to something more than a bump up in the stock price

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

right they're being wise what it goes back to that personal vision what does that success mean to you individually not just the company right but for you as an individual what's the alignment there people will move mountains for you if they really understand how this large-scale change is connected to something more than a bump up in the stock price

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

or a decrease in operational overhead, but to them, their personal big whys.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

or a decrease in operational overhead, but to them, their personal big whys.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

I'm so glad you asked about this because I've had this conversation with so many people over the years and I was having this conversation with someone whose boss was a micromanager and it was driving him nuts. And I sat down and said, this would be a great blog post. And this was when people were blogging on LinkedIn, that LinkedIn post. garnered 45,000 views and counting.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

I'm so glad you asked about this because I've had this conversation with so many people over the years and I was having this conversation with someone whose boss was a micromanager and it was driving him nuts. And I sat down and said, this would be a great blog post. And this was when people were blogging on LinkedIn, that LinkedIn post. garnered 45,000 views and counting.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

It was shared out on the main thread through that weekend. I have never, I'm a coach. I'm not a famous person. I have never had so many views on a LinkedIn post or a blog in my life. And I recognize this is a really big deal. Everyone faces this, right? Everyone faces this.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

It was shared out on the main thread through that weekend. I have never, I'm a coach. I'm not a famous person. I have never had so many views on a LinkedIn post or a blog in my life. And I recognize this is a really big deal. Everyone faces this, right? Everyone faces this.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

at some time and you know what happens when we exit a situation because our boss is ineffective we're running from something versus running to something but of course making a change because you're running away from something usually doesn't pan out as well as when you're running towards something.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

at some time and you know what happens when we exit a situation because our boss is ineffective we're running from something versus running to something but of course making a change because you're running away from something usually doesn't pan out as well as when you're running towards something.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So I think there are three mistakes that I really see that these talented professionals making when they find themselves working for an ineffective boss. The first one is playing psychologists. Oh, passive aggressive. bad childhood, won't make a decision, commitment phobic, right? These may or may not be real issues that your boss is facing. Who knows?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So I think there are three mistakes that I really see that these talented professionals making when they find themselves working for an ineffective boss. The first one is playing psychologists. Oh, passive aggressive. bad childhood, won't make a decision, commitment phobic, right? These may or may not be real issues that your boss is facing. Who knows?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

But when you, again, this is the judge in action. When you're playing psychologist with the ineffective boss, you're inadvertently disempowering yourself because you're hypothesizing about a psychological issue that even if it turns out you're right, you can't personally treat it. You're not the psychologist, right?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

But when you, again, this is the judge in action. When you're playing psychologist with the ineffective boss, you're inadvertently disempowering yourself because you're hypothesizing about a psychological issue that even if it turns out you're right, you can't personally treat it. You're not the psychologist, right?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So if you find yourself starting to go down that path of that judging, that negative emotion, just let it go. Second one, losing perspective by getting attached to one and only one solution, right? And I've seen this many times in which the individual is saying, I have to persevere.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So if you find yourself starting to go down that path of that judging, that negative emotion, just let it go. Second one, losing perspective by getting attached to one and only one solution, right? And I've seen this many times in which the individual is saying, I have to persevere.