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Jennifer Selby Long

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Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

I have to turn this product line around no matter how much my funding gets cut or how often my boss and her boss change direction or I must get a big win so that boss can see how wrong he is or whatever. a common one. I'm going to HR and I'm not giving up until they fight for what's right.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

I have to turn this product line around no matter how much my funding gets cut or how often my boss and her boss change direction or I must get a big win so that boss can see how wrong he is or whatever. a common one. I'm going to HR and I'm not giving up until they fight for what's right.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

Now, there's just rarely one clear-cut superior solution to the myriad problems that are caused by an ineffective boss, but there are probably better solutions and there are certainly more options. Shirzad Shamim calls it Turning on your explore neural network where you open up to exploring more solutions to the problem before you jump ship, right?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

Now, there's just rarely one clear-cut superior solution to the myriad problems that are caused by an ineffective boss, but there are probably better solutions and there are certainly more options. Shirzad Shamim calls it Turning on your explore neural network where you open up to exploring more solutions to the problem before you jump ship, right?

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

A third one is creating an emotional sinkhole by making it personal or taking sides in political battles. We get this little dynamic, right? Your ineffective boss leads to lower performance on the team, which leads to stress, which leads to making it personal and taking sides in what we might call a backside covering political battle.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

A third one is creating an emotional sinkhole by making it personal or taking sides in political battles. We get this little dynamic, right? Your ineffective boss leads to lower performance on the team, which leads to stress, which leads to making it personal and taking sides in what we might call a backside covering political battle.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So when you find yourself thinking about your boss in these kind of sweeping terms, and again, you feel your judge coming on...

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So when you find yourself thinking about your boss in these kind of sweeping terms, and again, you feel your judge coming on...

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

you're recognized that you're only feeding the intensely negative energy that's there and it does nothing to help you and does nothing to help your teammates the people around you so instead there are really five things that i think you can try to view the situation from a different perspective

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

you're recognized that you're only feeding the intensely negative energy that's there and it does nothing to help you and does nothing to help your teammates the people around you so instead there are really five things that i think you can try to view the situation from a different perspective

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

and then handle it in a way that's going to work well for you, whether that's staying in it or making that leap toward another job or toward starting your own business. The first one, step back from that situation and first size up the degree to which his or her incompetence is truly affecting you.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

and then handle it in a way that's going to work well for you, whether that's staying in it or making that leap toward another job or toward starting your own business. The first one, step back from that situation and first size up the degree to which his or her incompetence is truly affecting you.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

It's disappointing when your boss routinely lets you down, but maybe slowing down your professional growth for a few months because they're new to the role and they're not good at it yet. That's one thing. But that's not in the same league as your entire bonus being on the line or even worse, your personal reputation being put in jeopardy with people you respect because the boss is ineffective.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

It's disappointing when your boss routinely lets you down, but maybe slowing down your professional growth for a few months because they're new to the role and they're not good at it yet. That's one thing. But that's not in the same league as your entire bonus being on the line or even worse, your personal reputation being put in jeopardy with people you respect because the boss is ineffective.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So size it up. It's a reflective exercise. It's subjective. It looks different for you from someone else.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

So size it up. It's a reflective exercise. It's subjective. It looks different for you from someone else.

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

and even for you in different situations at different times in your life but it helps you calibrate that situation a little bit quiet down those nasty saboteurs so that you're calibrating it to your unique needs right is it short term and you just want to let it stop bothering you before you make a big change

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

and even for you in different situations at different times in your life but it helps you calibrate that situation a little bit quiet down those nasty saboteurs so that you're calibrating it to your unique needs right is it short term and you just want to let it stop bothering you before you make a big change

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

or is this something that's really added up and you need to go and you just need to do that secondly assess if you're in a politically messy situation oh i hate this tip but if you do think you're in a politically messy situation you do have to begin some basic defensive action right employees have lost their jobs due to ineffective managers who failed to protect them

Chief Change Officer
#212 Jennifer Selby Long: Office Politics Without the Backstabbing—Yes, It’s Possible

or is this something that's really added up and you need to go and you just need to do that secondly assess if you're in a politically messy situation oh i hate this tip but if you do think you're in a politically messy situation you do have to begin some basic defensive action right employees have lost their jobs due to ineffective managers who failed to protect them