Jennifer

Okay. So a long story short, my brother moved in with us this last August and he was kind of like at a rock bottom place. And my husband and I told him that he could come stay with us. And, you know, he was kind of struggling financially. And I believe that he struggled as an alcoholic and struggled with maybe like a a gambling addiction.

Okay. So a long story short, my brother moved in with us this last August and he was kind of like at a rock bottom place. And my husband and I told him that he could come stay with us. And, you know, he was kind of struggling financially. And I believe that he struggled as an alcoholic and struggled with maybe like a a gambling addiction.

Okay. So a long story short, my brother moved in with us this last August and he was kind of like at a rock bottom place. And my husband and I told him that he could come stay with us. And, you know, he was kind of struggling financially. And I believe that he struggled as an alcoholic and struggled with maybe like a a gambling addiction.

And, you know, we just kind of laid it out for him, you know, that we want him to get, we could come stay with us here.

And, you know, we just kind of laid it out for him, you know, that we want him to get, we could come stay with us here.

And, you know, we just kind of laid it out for him, you know, that we want him to get, we could come stay with us here.

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Okay. And so he's staying with us. He has a job and I guess our only obligation for him was that he had to stick to a budget. And we're not asking him to pay any bills or anything. We just wanted him to stick to a budget to be able to pay his debt off. But I think for us, it's kind of like I feel like having to mother him to stay on that budget. And I don't want to damage our relationship.

Okay. And so he's staying with us. He has a job and I guess our only obligation for him was that he had to stick to a budget. And we're not asking him to pay any bills or anything. We just wanted him to stick to a budget to be able to pay his debt off. But I think for us, it's kind of like I feel like having to mother him to stay on that budget. And I don't want to damage our relationship.

Okay. And so he's staying with us. He has a job and I guess our only obligation for him was that he had to stick to a budget. And we're not asking him to pay any bills or anything. We just wanted him to stick to a budget to be able to pay his debt off. But I think for us, it's kind of like I feel like having to mother him to stay on that budget. And I don't want to damage our relationship.

And I don't want my husband and I's relationship to become impaired because, you know, I'm I'm kind of like in a hard situation. You know, my husband supports him being there, obviously, but it is a hard balance between the two.

And I don't want my husband and I's relationship to become impaired because, you know, I'm I'm kind of like in a hard situation. You know, my husband supports him being there, obviously, but it is a hard balance between the two.

And I don't want my husband and I's relationship to become impaired because, you know, I'm I'm kind of like in a hard situation. You know, my husband supports him being there, obviously, but it is a hard balance between the two.

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And that's what we were doing. And so like last month it was kind of derailed and it just feels like... What does that mean?

And that's what we were doing. And so like last month it was kind of derailed and it just feels like... What does that mean?