Jennifer

And that's what we were doing. And so like last month it was kind of derailed and it just feels like... What does that mean?

Yeah, he spent a lot of money that he didn't account. So we want to sit down and like say you have to account for every dollar.

Yeah, he spent a lot of money that he didn't account. So we want to sit down and like say you have to account for every dollar.

Yeah, he spent a lot of money that he didn't account. So we want to sit down and like say you have to account for every dollar.

Okay. So, and I guess that's where I'm like, is that too, is that like a little bit too much? Like we're, we're wanting him to sit down and go over his finances and account for every dollar because this is kind of my demeanor behind it too. Like we're not asking you to pay any bills. You know, my husband and I both work. We have five kids. Our plate is like to the max.

Okay. So, and I guess that's where I'm like, is that too, is that like a little bit too much? Like we're, we're wanting him to sit down and go over his finances and account for every dollar because this is kind of my demeanor behind it too. Like we're not asking you to pay any bills. You know, my husband and I both work. We have five kids. Our plate is like to the max.

Okay. So, and I guess that's where I'm like, is that too, is that like a little bit too much? Like we're, we're wanting him to sit down and go over his finances and account for every dollar because this is kind of my demeanor behind it too. Like we're not asking you to pay any bills. You know, my husband and I both work. We have five kids. Our plate is like to the max.

And so when you're, you know, stopping at the convenience store every day or you're eating out every day or you're buying stuff or you're buying bait, like that to me is like not okay. And so I'm having a hard time like not trying to be his parent, but also holding him accountable.

And so when you're, you know, stopping at the convenience store every day or you're eating out every day or you're buying stuff or you're buying bait, like that to me is like not okay. And so I'm having a hard time like not trying to be his parent, but also holding him accountable.

And so when you're, you know, stopping at the convenience store every day or you're eating out every day or you're buying stuff or you're buying bait, like that to me is like not okay. And so I'm having a hard time like not trying to be his parent, but also holding him accountable.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

So how do I get myself out of this situation?

So how do I get myself out of this situation?

So how do I get myself out of this situation?

I think you're totally right.

I think you're totally right.

I think you're totally right.

I have a passive personality. So how do I, it's really hard for me to sit down and say, hey, listen, brother. And this is what my husband's told me. He's like, hey, honey, like I know you want to help him, but you have to let him go and figure it out. That's right. How do I do that? Because this is kind of like another thing I'm struggling with. My brother came to stay with us.