Jennifer
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I have a passive personality. So how do I, it's really hard for me to sit down and say, hey, listen, brother. And this is what my husband's told me. He's like, hey, honey, like I know you want to help him, but you have to let him go and figure it out. That's right. How do I do that? Because this is kind of like another thing I'm struggling with. My brother came to stay with us.
I have a passive personality. So how do I, it's really hard for me to sit down and say, hey, listen, brother. And this is what my husband's told me. He's like, hey, honey, like I know you want to help him, but you have to let him go and figure it out. That's right. How do I do that? Because this is kind of like another thing I'm struggling with. My brother came to stay with us.
And two days later, my husband lost his twin brother to suicide. And so he came to stay with us, and we're walking through that. And it's like I just worry about him hitting rock bottom, which I know I can't be his savior, and you're right. That just totally hits the nail on the head.
And two days later, my husband lost his twin brother to suicide. And so he came to stay with us, and we're walking through that. And it's like I just worry about him hitting rock bottom, which I know I can't be his savior, and you're right. That just totally hits the nail on the head.
And two days later, my husband lost his twin brother to suicide. And so he came to stay with us, and we're walking through that. And it's like I just worry about him hitting rock bottom, which I know I can't be his savior, and you're right. That just totally hits the nail on the head.
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And I just naturally have that personality.
And I just naturally have that personality.
And I just naturally have that personality.
Yes, we had a tough childhood. Okay. And, yeah.
Yes, we had a tough childhood. Okay. And, yeah.
Yes, we had a tough childhood. Okay. And, yeah.
Well, and I feel like he's only doing good because we have our thumb on him. And I'm just like, I'm so just overwhelmed every day between being a wife and a mother and so many things. And I'm just like, I want him to do good and right, but I don't have the energy to exert on him. make like, okay, did you do your budget today? Okay. Like you can't be spending money.
Well, and I feel like he's only doing good because we have our thumb on him. And I'm just like, I'm so just overwhelmed every day between being a wife and a mother and so many things. And I'm just like, I want him to do good and right, but I don't have the energy to exert on him. make like, okay, did you do your budget today? Okay. Like you can't be spending money.
Well, and I feel like he's only doing good because we have our thumb on him. And I'm just like, I'm so just overwhelmed every day between being a wife and a mother and so many things. And I'm just like, I want him to do good and right, but I don't have the energy to exert on him. make like, okay, did you do your budget today? Okay. Like you can't be spending money.
Like, you know, so like, how do I move forward? What's the next best thing? As I hear you say, like, what do I do to not sever the relationship, but also let him know that, okay, brother, like, I love you, but how do I sit down and like have this conversation?
Like, you know, so like, how do I move forward? What's the next best thing? As I hear you say, like, what do I do to not sever the relationship, but also let him know that, okay, brother, like, I love you, but how do I sit down and like have this conversation?
Like, you know, so like, how do I move forward? What's the next best thing? As I hear you say, like, what do I do to not sever the relationship, but also let him know that, okay, brother, like, I love you, but how do I sit down and like have this conversation?