Jenny Taitz

What if the person says, so you don't want me to come? This is hard because there's so much in the book, but you have to do the dear man with also this best friend called give, which is like the give is the food for the relationship, which is being gentle, interested, validating, easy manner. So maybe the person says, so you don't want me to come? Of course I want you to come.

That's why I want to plan these really special dinners and want to make this time not with the chaos of the aunt that's staying for two days and the cousin that's coming for another day. And part of dear man is also calculating intensity because Because sometimes people are at the airport screaming at someone at a 10 when there's no seat. What are you going to do about that?

That's why I want to plan these really special dinners and want to make this time not with the chaos of the aunt that's staying for two days and the cousin that's coming for another day. And part of dear man is also calculating intensity because Because sometimes people are at the airport screaming at someone at a 10 when there's no seat. What are you going to do about that?

That's why I want to plan these really special dinners and want to make this time not with the chaos of the aunt that's staying for two days and the cousin that's coming for another day. And part of dear man is also calculating intensity because Because sometimes people are at the airport screaming at someone at a 10 when there's no seat. What are you going to do about that?

The person's not capable of giving you what you want. And so I also go through how to compute. Should you be at a one? Should you be at a 10? And someone might be pushing back because you're at a three and maybe you weren't a seven. And this is why I wrote this book, because a lot of people can't afford therapy or forget these when the cousin texts you.

The person's not capable of giving you what you want. And so I also go through how to compute. Should you be at a one? Should you be at a 10? And someone might be pushing back because you're at a three and maybe you weren't a seven. And this is why I wrote this book, because a lot of people can't afford therapy or forget these when the cousin texts you.

The person's not capable of giving you what you want. And so I also go through how to compute. Should you be at a one? Should you be at a 10? And someone might be pushing back because you're at a three and maybe you weren't a seven. And this is why I wrote this book, because a lot of people can't afford therapy or forget these when the cousin texts you.

And for you to have basically on like a post-it how to do this in the heat of the moment, because that is stressful. Having someone in your house that you don't want there.

And for you to have basically on like a post-it how to do this in the heat of the moment, because that is stressful. Having someone in your house that you don't want there.

And for you to have basically on like a post-it how to do this in the heat of the moment, because that is stressful. Having someone in your house that you don't want there.

I love that. And Monica, I think the thing that's great about that is then even being clear, my agenda here is self-respect. And even if someone's mildly annoyed, self-respect is my aim.

I love that. And Monica, I think the thing that's great about that is then even being clear, my agenda here is self-respect. And even if someone's mildly annoyed, self-respect is my aim.

I love that. And Monica, I think the thing that's great about that is then even being clear, my agenda here is self-respect. And even if someone's mildly annoyed, self-respect is my aim.

You can get what you want. You can get the relationship and you can get self-respect if you know how to do it.

You can get what you want. You can get the relationship and you can get self-respect if you know how to do it.

You can get what you want. You can get the relationship and you can get self-respect if you know how to do it.

In addition to learning how to deal with intense moments, whether your mind is making you miserable or your body feels like it's waging a war against you or you're doing things that are just spreading your stress. We also need to learn how to live a life that feels less stressful. We don't just want to go from like hard time to hard time.

In addition to learning how to deal with intense moments, whether your mind is making you miserable or your body feels like it's waging a war against you or you're doing things that are just spreading your stress. We also need to learn how to live a life that feels less stressful. We don't just want to go from like hard time to hard time.

In addition to learning how to deal with intense moments, whether your mind is making you miserable or your body feels like it's waging a war against you or you're doing things that are just spreading your stress. We also need to learn how to live a life that feels less stressful. We don't just want to go from like hard time to hard time.

And so buffers is almost like preventative medicine, the things we could do preemptively before the hard thing.