Jeremy Schneider
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324 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2018
last heard Nov 2018
Jeremy Schneider’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Because for a woman, there's something literally changing about her body.
Whereas for us men, we're a little bit disconnected from that.
We don't
it doesn't feel a part of us yet.
Right.
And we can be involved in, and participate in the, you know, doctor's visits and, and sonograms and, and that's helpful.
And it certainly brings us closer to that, you know, end part where we want to go.
But I think even from the beginning, that distinction is there.
And I think, you know, for some men, absolutely there, there is a sense of loss.
Right.
And, and I don't mean that cruelly or meanly, but,
you know, we have an ideal of the way we thought our children would be.
And when a child is born differently, whatever that difference is, I think there's a sense of, well, I'm missing out on what I could have had instead of sort of being able to understand, well, I have all of this now.
And I think there is an adjustment period for men.
And I think when that adjustment period ends up taking too long or that adjustment period
doesn't have some sort of reality check to it.
I think, unfortunately, it's easy for some men to go on the kind of path of least resistance.
And I think there's an absolute sadness to that because, you know, while it may not have been that ideal in their head, you know,
Childhood is, you know, raising a child is never that ideal in our head.
You know, it is so much more challenging and fascinating and interesting and stimulating than we ever imagined.
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