Jessi Draper

We had our toddler as well.

And he was traveling for work.

So he was in Texas, California, like all over the place.

And I was like, I can't run a business, start to film this show and raise two kids.

So I did initiate that.

I was like, I need you to like, but I did say, I need you to find something here.

I thought he was still going to work.

He just took that as I'm going to quit.

And I was making good money.

So he didn't need to work.

But looking back, I'm like, I should have had him help out with the kids more, though.

He got to golf all day.

of the family impacted your relationship long term i think that for me in the future like i am totally fine being that person i'll probably always make the most money but i do want a guy that has like passions and like something of his own it doesn't matter how much money he makes but i will say with jordan since he believes in like the traditional gender roles i think he really loved the lifestyle i provided but he had a really hard time being like i'm not the man i'm not the provider which is such a mormon like toxic way of thinking and

All the men, like look at the men in our group, like a lot of them had those issues.

So I think he was very like intimidated by it.

But he also liked having the money.

Right.

Exactly.

He has it so easy.

yes did he ever start to make any comments to you negatively about how being a stay-at-home dad made him feel oh he just told me from the beginning he said i believe in gender roles and not from the beginning but like when he quit his job sorry um he goes i'm just you know i'm not meant to be that role and he would mom shame me a lot like the kids need their mom you're gone a lot and so i can't fill that role like i'm the dad and i'm not meant to be a stay-at-home dad i don't want to do that