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Jessi Ngatikaura

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723 total appearances

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The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

And the first thing I hear is Brett telling our management if we don't get X amount, then the whole cast is walking like we're done. And that was shocking to me because I'm like, first of all, I don't want a husband speaking for me. Second of all, that's not what I'm going to do. So I said that and they lost their minds. Brett was so mean to me on the call.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

And the first thing I hear is Brett telling our management if we don't get X amount, then the whole cast is walking like we're done. And that was shocking to me because I'm like, first of all, I don't want a husband speaking for me. Second of all, that's not what I'm going to do. So I said that and they lost their minds. Brett was so mean to me on the call.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

And the first thing I hear is Brett telling our management if we don't get X amount, then the whole cast is walking like we're done. And that was shocking to me because I'm like, first of all, I don't want a husband speaking for me. Second of all, that's not what I'm going to do. So I said that and they lost their minds. Brett was so mean to me on the call.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

and so demeaning and then afterwards they called everyone behind my back like if Jessie doesn't want to do this if she's going to be selfish then she's off like that way there is more money for all of us and interesting yeah and then the things I didn't know were Demi saying I had no morals no values um I was like fame hungry I would do anything to be famous um I was she's like I don't want to be a pawn in Jessie's hair scheme like things that just took it way too far yeah so I didn't know any of that until later on but

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

and so demeaning and then afterwards they called everyone behind my back like if Jessie doesn't want to do this if she's going to be selfish then she's off like that way there is more money for all of us and interesting yeah and then the things I didn't know were Demi saying I had no morals no values um I was like fame hungry I would do anything to be famous um I was she's like I don't want to be a pawn in Jessie's hair scheme like things that just took it way too far yeah so I didn't know any of that until later on but

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

and so demeaning and then afterwards they called everyone behind my back like if Jessie doesn't want to do this if she's going to be selfish then she's off like that way there is more money for all of us and interesting yeah and then the things I didn't know were Demi saying I had no morals no values um I was like fame hungry I would do anything to be famous um I was she's like I don't want to be a pawn in Jessie's hair scheme like things that just took it way too far yeah so I didn't know any of that until later on but

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

when we talked it was very much like she ghosted me for a week wouldn't talk to me finally she came around but it was very much like you need to earn my trust back like I'm so disappointed in you and it kind of put her on a pedestal in our friendship where like she was here and I felt like I had to like beg for her forgiveness and that was like our dynamic and even though we were good again I never felt like good in that yeah so then when more and more started coming out over the season I was like oh she's not a good friend and I need to like let this go

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

when we talked it was very much like she ghosted me for a week wouldn't talk to me finally she came around but it was very much like you need to earn my trust back like I'm so disappointed in you and it kind of put her on a pedestal in our friendship where like she was here and I felt like I had to like beg for her forgiveness and that was like our dynamic and even though we were good again I never felt like good in that yeah so then when more and more started coming out over the season I was like oh she's not a good friend and I need to like let this go

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

when we talked it was very much like she ghosted me for a week wouldn't talk to me finally she came around but it was very much like you need to earn my trust back like I'm so disappointed in you and it kind of put her on a pedestal in our friendship where like she was here and I felt like I had to like beg for her forgiveness and that was like our dynamic and even though we were good again I never felt like good in that yeah so then when more and more started coming out over the season I was like oh she's not a good friend and I need to like let this go

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

understood how did the other girls feel were they ready to band together to for more money like was everyone on board with this plan I think they were in the beginning because they're like yeah like I think Demi had read a story about Jersey Shore doing it and so she was like they got a million dollars so we can do that and everyone was just like okay but then as time went on and we started to see how aggressive Demi was how much she was asking for I think some of the girls were like oh wait like I'm all for making more money banding together but like you're being a little

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

understood how did the other girls feel were they ready to band together to for more money like was everyone on board with this plan I think they were in the beginning because they're like yeah like I think Demi had read a story about Jersey Shore doing it and so she was like they got a million dollars so we can do that and everyone was just like okay but then as time went on and we started to see how aggressive Demi was how much she was asking for I think some of the girls were like oh wait like I'm all for making more money banding together but like you're being a little

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

understood how did the other girls feel were they ready to band together to for more money like was everyone on board with this plan I think they were in the beginning because they're like yeah like I think Demi had read a story about Jersey Shore doing it and so she was like they got a million dollars so we can do that and everyone was just like okay but then as time went on and we started to see how aggressive Demi was how much she was asking for I think some of the girls were like oh wait like I'm all for making more money banding together but like you're being a little

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

too excessive to the point where like we had heard whispers that maybe she would not get rewarded for that behavior right and we don't all want to be a sinking ship no you don't want to overplay your hand like sure negotiate and like you guys have earned it but like they're well after a few seasons like we have to earn our stripes is how I feel you know so and Taylor was right in that conversation if anyone deserves the most it is Taylor yeah and she's not asking for it

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

too excessive to the point where like we had heard whispers that maybe she would not get rewarded for that behavior right and we don't all want to be a sinking ship no you don't want to overplay your hand like sure negotiate and like you guys have earned it but like they're well after a few seasons like we have to earn our stripes is how I feel you know so and Taylor was right in that conversation if anyone deserves the most it is Taylor yeah and she's not asking for it

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

too excessive to the point where like we had heard whispers that maybe she would not get rewarded for that behavior right and we don't all want to be a sinking ship no you don't want to overplay your hand like sure negotiate and like you guys have earned it but like they're well after a few seasons like we have to earn our stripes is how I feel you know so and Taylor was right in that conversation if anyone deserves the most it is Taylor yeah and she's not asking for it

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

I think that's great. That's good for the health of the show. It is. Then that's not like, oh, well, she brought more to the table because we all film six days a week, if not more, and we're putting in the effort. It just sucks because then they choose what makes it and what doesn't. I've had full weeks of filming that none of it made it into the show. Right.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

I think that's great. That's good for the health of the show. It is. Then that's not like, oh, well, she brought more to the table because we all film six days a week, if not more, and we're putting in the effort. It just sucks because then they choose what makes it and what doesn't. I've had full weeks of filming that none of it made it into the show. Right.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

I think that's great. That's good for the health of the show. It is. Then that's not like, oh, well, she brought more to the table because we all film six days a week, if not more, and we're putting in the effort. It just sucks because then they choose what makes it and what doesn't. I've had full weeks of filming that none of it made it into the show. Right.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

But that's the price you pay and you choose to do that. But we're all putting in the same amount of effort. It's just whose story kind of gets priority. Yeah. But Taylor got us a show. She should always deserve more. But what I love about Taylor, she's really humble. She doesn't care about money.

The Toast
Secret Lives of Toasty Wives with Jessi Ngatikaura: Thursday, June 5th, 2025

But that's the price you pay and you choose to do that. But we're all putting in the same amount of effort. It's just whose story kind of gets priority. Yeah. But Taylor got us a show. She should always deserve more. But what I love about Taylor, she's really humble. She doesn't care about money.