Jessi

But again, it's how you respond.

It's how you show up.

And that's where the work has been done.

I want to say that it's not like this.

There was not a day it was like an awakening in therapy.

It wasn't like, oh, now everything's going to be perfect.

That's not how it works.

So to say specifically, moving forward from that point, I don't remember specifically, but I would just say that it's just progressively gotten better.

Oh, I mean, for sure.

I treated over the years.

It's not even close.

Okay.

Yeah, I would never.

I mean, like, it's not even a comparison.

I think one of the things, now that I think back, it was, I said, if I was ever asked that question about our son, I would never, I might have felt that way, right?

Like, would I want my son to date someone like you?

You know, because in that moment, I'm only worried about, would I want my son to date someone who had an affair?

And I would have obviously said no.

but I would never have said that out loud, right?

I would have given it context.