Jessica (Caller)

And I'm like, we have three kids and we live in the country.

And that's not really a priority for me.

Yeah.

And I think the hard part is...

some of it, there is a lot of truth in his perspective, but there's a lot of truth to it because of how I used to be.

Sure.

And that's the part where it's like, I feel like I have proven myself differently.

So yeah.

But some of that is... I hear what you're saying though.

I'm good.

How are you?

So my husband and I are thinking about taking out a heat lock to expand our home.

And I listened to you guys long enough to know that you're probably screaming no right now.

So let me just try to get through this super quick.

So we owe $280,000 on our home, and we have 10 acres of land.

And right now, with the way the market is,

um if we were to sell this and make four or five hundred thousand off of it that is what 10 acres alone is going for and the price to build is up to 165 a square foot right now so it would cost us almost double what it would cost for us to take some of the equity out and make our home bigger we now have three children and we've significantly outgrown the size of our home so in the end it it

Our mortgage payment, what we would owe would be almost half of what it would look like if we did the reverse where we sold it and tried to build on 10 acres somewhere.

Okay.

So a third option, I know another thing I thought about is if we were to go further outside of where we currently live.