Jessica Mizzi

He's the best.

Honestly, what an incredible young man you have.

So sweet.

And I just thought, how lovely.

lovely third child actually was like hassling him for crying about it and crying at school and so I sat with him next to him at dinner and I wouldn't have picked that I said that was really that's not really nice that he did that like he's like I wouldn't cry though I'm like well you're not him and we all process things differently like we me and you have a lot of time together to discuss stuff like and you're a different personality to him and you shouldn't

just because he's feeling that way you can't like make him feel like that's not valid so then you're trying to parent the fact that every child's different and you know there's so much to um there's so much to it sorry to cut you off there's just that's really every personality is different right so every personality is different but also there's just like pressure on boys and men not to cry and it's fucking annoying they that's the thing i said remember daddy cried

And dad actually said to Rico who was lying there, Rico, it's okay to cry.

I remember that so clearly.

Like, you're allowed to cry, darling.

And it's like they've now put on this front that's all fine.

So they've pushed it away, which I'm so stoked that Tay is actually like.

Still, yeah, still grieving it.

And talking about his feelings as well, which I think is really important.

Yeah.

But, yeah.

Hold on.

The older boys just like want to move on.

Shit, Monday was not, you had Ripper on the first day.

He said get Jess to bring a rugby ball to the game, to the training a little bit earlier.

Yeah.