Jessica Mizzi

I'm like, come on, babe, let's just slap box.

And we'll just, okay, okay.

And we'll slap box and then we'll hug it out.

And then it's just like a reset.

Louis loves me to touch his head.

So I just, if he's grumpy, I'll just come over and I'll just go and I'll just start to massage his head.

It's like, oh, keep going.

This morning I woke Louis up with a head massage.

He's like, oh, thanks mom.

And then Carlos likes to have proper, a real decent connection cuddle.

And then Tana is quite similar like that.

So I just feel like I'm kind of working out, especially with the older two, where it's very one minute's okay, one minute's not.

I sort of feel like I'm just like,

really honing in on like how to kind of change the mood instead of almost like regulate the situation eh yes like louis was grumpy last night when as i left for bed because rika wouldn't let him watch his show because i've just had the tv on so i just sort of like went and just rubbed his head and did what he likes and i could feel him soften

Nina said to me... You know, sometimes I don't want to do this, guys, but I just do it because I know that this is part of parenting.

um tina actually said to me the other night like i never want anything to happen to you which was a bit traumatizing like i didn't know what to say like don't worry nothing more because i know you don't know what's around the corner and you saying that to nina but that's really lovely like that's so cute that's something she's she's like me i saw she often says the die thing you know i was like that i used to come out and cry to mom and dad and say you've only got 10 more years of like being young they were 40 yeah they're still here

Yeah.

Your sister is nearly 44.

I know.

On that note, the back to school, you've got to go via the web app, by the way.