Jezz Chung

So even to this day, in all my healing practices, I'm trying to recognize love when I feel it in me, when I'm receiving it, when I'm giving it, being really present with it. So I would say that you don't have to force something that's not working because there's nothing wrong with you. There's nothing wrong with who you are and how you feel and feel.

So even to this day, in all my healing practices, I'm trying to recognize love when I feel it in me, when I'm receiving it, when I'm giving it, being really present with it. So I would say that you don't have to force something that's not working because there's nothing wrong with you. There's nothing wrong with who you are and how you feel and feel.

um and how you communicate and what you need i think i i say all the time it is okay to have needs and the biggest question shift that has helped me in my healing process is instead of asking myself what's wrong with you why can't you do this why can't you be like everyone else i say actually what do i need what do i need that i'm not getting and that has been a huge shift for me yeah yeah

um and how you communicate and what you need i think i i say all the time it is okay to have needs and the biggest question shift that has helped me in my healing process is instead of asking myself what's wrong with you why can't you do this why can't you be like everyone else i say actually what do i need what do i need that i'm not getting and that has been a huge shift for me yeah yeah

The first thing that comes off of what you said, Libby, is that sounds like parallel play, which is one of the five neurodivergent love languages. For anyone listening, I highly recommend it. I think there's a website called Stimpunks and it's five neurodivergent love languages. One is please crush my soul back into my body, which I love, like just deep pressure.

The first thing that comes off of what you said, Libby, is that sounds like parallel play, which is one of the five neurodivergent love languages. For anyone listening, I highly recommend it. I think there's a website called Stimpunks and it's five neurodivergent love languages. One is please crush my soul back into my body, which I love, like just deep pressure.

So it's it's just letting people be. So a lot of the time I'll text a friend because I feel like I'm dating my friends all the time and I'll text them. Can we parallel play? I really have to get this done and I can't get it done alone. But to me, what keeps me going? curious about friendship and dating, et cetera, connections in general is honesty and curiosity are so sexy to me.

So it's it's just letting people be. So a lot of the time I'll text a friend because I feel like I'm dating my friends all the time and I'll text them. Can we parallel play? I really have to get this done and I can't get it done alone. But to me, what keeps me going? curious about friendship and dating, et cetera, connections in general is honesty and curiosity are so sexy to me.

Those are two of the sexiest traits where if someone is being honest in who they are and they know who they are because they've spent time with themselves, There's so much wealth of wisdom to share from there. And I like, I hate small talk as most autistic people I know hate small talk. So I want to get deep. I want to know your inner world.

Those are two of the sexiest traits where if someone is being honest in who they are and they know who they are because they've spent time with themselves, There's so much wealth of wisdom to share from there. And I like, I hate small talk as most autistic people I know hate small talk. So I want to get deep. I want to know your inner world.

I want to know all of these things and whether we do that through parallel play or conversation or whatever it is. I feel like I practice that honesty and curiosity through my singing, my acting, my writing, my screenwriting, my poetry, everything, even talking online daily. I share my thought processes out loud and that to me is keeping that muscle alive because

I want to know all of these things and whether we do that through parallel play or conversation or whatever it is. I feel like I practice that honesty and curiosity through my singing, my acting, my writing, my screenwriting, my poetry, everything, even talking online daily. I share my thought processes out loud and that to me is keeping that muscle alive because

I think we get better at anything we practice. That's one of my creative mottos. So I think it's not about perfection. Perfection isn't the goal. Honesty is a much more attainable goal. So as long as I have that as a metric for myself, I just say, it's okay. If it was awkward or weird or whatever it is, I'm still trying and that's what matters. I love that.

I think we get better at anything we practice. That's one of my creative mottos. So I think it's not about perfection. Perfection isn't the goal. Honesty is a much more attainable goal. So as long as I have that as a metric for myself, I just say, it's okay. If it was awkward or weird or whatever it is, I'm still trying and that's what matters. I love that.

It's... Explain it. It's kind of the in-between of codependency and hyper-independence. The way that I see it, it's this knowing of you matter to me, I matter to you, I need you, and you need me. And it's working in symbiotic reciprocity relationship with each other and deep, deep, deep listening.

It's... Explain it. It's kind of the in-between of codependency and hyper-independence. The way that I see it, it's this knowing of you matter to me, I matter to you, I need you, and you need me. And it's working in symbiotic reciprocity relationship with each other and deep, deep, deep listening.

Big tasks ahead. Busy. There's so much resonance in what both of you shared because just to go quickly back to friendship, that's why I'm a big cinephile. And I looked at the landscape and thought, where are the queer love stories about friendship? I want a rom-com, but instead of two lovers, it's two friends. But it follows that same arc. So I wrote it. And I really need help getting it made.

Big tasks ahead. Busy. There's so much resonance in what both of you shared because just to go quickly back to friendship, that's why I'm a big cinephile. And I looked at the landscape and thought, where are the queer love stories about friendship? I want a rom-com, but instead of two lovers, it's two friends. But it follows that same arc. So I wrote it. And I really need help getting it made.

We will make it for you. Okay, amazing. Let's do it. And it's... And to what you said about having that consent and agency and choice, I write about all these things in my book, interdependence, and this access to me is this trifecta of consent, agency, and choice. And also to what you said of, can you name your values and then design your life around it? That's literally what I did. Really?

We will make it for you. Okay, amazing. Let's do it. And it's... And to what you said about having that consent and agency and choice, I write about all these things in my book, interdependence, and this access to me is this trifecta of consent, agency, and choice. And also to what you said of, can you name your values and then design your life around it? That's literally what I did. Really?