Jillian Michaels

I feel less than in these areas.

This makes me feel weak and insecure.

Why?

And so what I'm telling you is that, oh my God, this is a great area for you to explore in order to evolve out of that pain.

That's what I'm saying.

I'm not saying you should feel ashamed.

No, no, no, no, no.

I'm telling you it's a spotlight, and it should be utilized as such to articulate a bit further on top of what John said.

Can I address that?

What I'm hearing from you

What I'm hearing from you is that, and you have said this now, I've counted, I think, at least eight times, as a fat person, as a fat person, as a fat person.

Now, there's nothing wrong with that.

But the fact that you feel the need to reiterate it shows me that it's become a structure within your identity.

And I think there's some element of betrayal that you're implicating about talking to me.

It's like, but as a fat person, I can't talk to you.

But as a fat person, it's disloyal.

But as a fat person, you're the enemy.

And that's also very interesting.

you know, what, what are you guarding against?

I would say, what does being a fat person mean to you?