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Jillian Turecki

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Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

You have a relationship with the story that you have.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

You have a relationship with the story that you have.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yes.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yes.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yes.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And then you're becoming resentful.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And then you're becoming resentful.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And then you're becoming resentful.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yes, it's brilliant. Yes, yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yes, it's brilliant. Yes, yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yes, it's brilliant. Yes, yeah.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yeah, well, expectations and you have to really manage our expectations as well. You know, a lot of times in a relationship, we're expecting this sort of rightness from our partner. And we seldom do we look within and think, how can I be better as a partner? How can I change something here?

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yeah, well, expectations and you have to really manage our expectations as well. You know, a lot of times in a relationship, we're expecting this sort of rightness from our partner. And we seldom do we look within and think, how can I be better as a partner? How can I change something here?

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Yeah, well, expectations and you have to really manage our expectations as well. You know, a lot of times in a relationship, we're expecting this sort of rightness from our partner. And we seldom do we look within and think, how can I be better as a partner? How can I change something here?

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Absolutely. And, you know, you take two people in a relationship who are willing to ask themselves that question, how am I complicit in whatever is going on here that is not working? Chances are you're going to have those people are going to have a pretty epic relationship. Honestly, accountability is the most important thing in a relationship.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Absolutely. And, you know, you take two people in a relationship who are willing to ask themselves that question, how am I complicit in whatever is going on here that is not working? Chances are you're going to have those people are going to have a pretty epic relationship. Honestly, accountability is the most important thing in a relationship.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

Absolutely. And, you know, you take two people in a relationship who are willing to ask themselves that question, how am I complicit in whatever is going on here that is not working? Chances are you're going to have those people are going to have a pretty epic relationship. Honestly, accountability is the most important thing in a relationship.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

being willing to be 100% responsible for your experience. So you're responsible for your thoughts, you're responsible for your perspectives, you're responsible for your behavior. That does not mean that two people come in, let's say they want couples coaching. It's not like, well, 50% is your fault and 50% is your fault.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

being willing to be 100% responsible for your experience. So you're responsible for your thoughts, you're responsible for your perspectives, you're responsible for your behavior. That does not mean that two people come in, let's say they want couples coaching. It's not like, well, 50% is your fault and 50% is your fault.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

being willing to be 100% responsible for your experience. So you're responsible for your thoughts, you're responsible for your perspectives, you're responsible for your behavior. That does not mean that two people come in, let's say they want couples coaching. It's not like, well, 50% is your fault and 50% is your fault.