Jillian Turecki

Yeah, and one thing that I would say, and I don't even know if I actually mentioned this in this book, wish I did, but I'll say it here, which is understanding your partner. Like profoundly, you're not going to understand everything about them because we're so complex and we barely understand ourselves.

But if you could make understanding your partner profoundly important to you, and that means if they are not your gender, understanding them, a little bit about the psychology of men or women or whoever you date. So, because they, men and women have different, they're different, right? Or, and understanding what their dreams are, what their fears are, what makes them, what makes them feel loved.

But if you could make understanding your partner profoundly important to you, and that means if they are not your gender, understanding them, a little bit about the psychology of men or women or whoever you date. So, because they, men and women have different, they're different, right? Or, and understanding what their dreams are, what their fears are, what makes them, what makes them feel loved.

But if you could make understanding your partner profoundly important to you, and that means if they are not your gender, understanding them, a little bit about the psychology of men or women or whoever you date. So, because they, men and women have different, they're different, right? Or, and understanding what their dreams are, what their fears are, what makes them, what makes them feel loved.

A lot of us, and I understand this completely, we get into a relationship, but our deepest craving is to be understood. and to be loved for who we are and to have that thing, that love that somehow we are not able to give ourselves. We want that from someone else. And when you enter a relationship, we forget that that person is seeking out the same thing.

A lot of us, and I understand this completely, we get into a relationship, but our deepest craving is to be understood. and to be loved for who we are and to have that thing, that love that somehow we are not able to give ourselves. We want that from someone else. And when you enter a relationship, we forget that that person is seeking out the same thing.

A lot of us, and I understand this completely, we get into a relationship, but our deepest craving is to be understood. and to be loved for who we are and to have that thing, that love that somehow we are not able to give ourselves. We want that from someone else. And when you enter a relationship, we forget that that person is seeking out the same thing.

And so if people were just like, if they really want to become great partners and have healthier partnerships and you love someone, Become like a master of them. And what I mean by a master of them, like you're mastering a skill, but the skill is them. Like you really understand them. Because when we really understand someone, then we can more completely fulfill their needs.

And so if people were just like, if they really want to become great partners and have healthier partnerships and you love someone, Become like a master of them. And what I mean by a master of them, like you're mastering a skill, but the skill is them. Like you really understand them. Because when we really understand someone, then we can more completely fulfill their needs.

And so if people were just like, if they really want to become great partners and have healthier partnerships and you love someone, Become like a master of them. And what I mean by a master of them, like you're mastering a skill, but the skill is them. Like you really understand them. Because when we really understand someone, then we can more completely fulfill their needs.

And people who are getting their deepest needs met by each other, they don't break up. They don't cheat. They don't stray away. Sure, there are some people who cheat because that's their problem, but they don't break up.

And people who are getting their deepest needs met by each other, they don't break up. They don't cheat. They don't stray away. Sure, there are some people who cheat because that's their problem, but they don't break up.

And people who are getting their deepest needs met by each other, they don't break up. They don't cheat. They don't stray away. Sure, there are some people who cheat because that's their problem, but they don't break up.

Both of it. You know, I had a thought about conflict since we were talking about that. And I had a conversation recently with a really dear friend of mine. And she's actually married to someone who's in many ways more emotionally in touch than she is. And that's usually you...

Both of it. You know, I had a thought about conflict since we were talking about that. And I had a conversation recently with a really dear friend of mine. And she's actually married to someone who's in many ways more emotionally in touch than she is. And that's usually you...

Both of it. You know, I had a thought about conflict since we were talking about that. And I had a conversation recently with a really dear friend of mine. And she's actually married to someone who's in many ways more emotionally in touch than she is. And that's usually you...

Usually if it's a man and a woman's married, it's usually the woman complaining about her husband or her spouse that he's not as emotionally in touch. But he is really, he has a high degree of emotional intelligence.

Usually if it's a man and a woman's married, it's usually the woman complaining about her husband or her spouse that he's not as emotionally in touch. But he is really, he has a high degree of emotional intelligence.

Usually if it's a man and a woman's married, it's usually the woman complaining about her husband or her spouse that he's not as emotionally in touch. But he is really, he has a high degree of emotional intelligence.

Now she has a high degree too, but he has a high degree of relational, like innate relational intelligence and wisdom that I think is just a part of his personality and also a part of what he was raised with and his parents. And whenever they have a problem,