Jillian Turecki

But when those things come up, you want to take full responsibility. And even if that's an hour later and you come back and you say, I'm really sorry. Like I was not my best self. That was not cool of me. I love you. Please forgive me.

But when those things come up, you want to take full responsibility. And even if that's an hour later and you come back and you say, I'm really sorry. Like I was not my best self. That was not cool of me. I love you. Please forgive me.

But when those things come up, you want to take full responsibility. And even if that's an hour later and you come back and you say, I'm really sorry. Like I was not my best self. That was not cool of me. I love you. Please forgive me.

And there can be passion. You know, you can say, you know, I'm really angry right now. Like I'm really fucking pissed off right now. You can do that without, without attacking the other person and their character.

And there can be passion. You know, you can say, you know, I'm really angry right now. Like I'm really fucking pissed off right now. You can do that without, without attacking the other person and their character.

And there can be passion. You know, you can say, you know, I'm really angry right now. Like I'm really fucking pissed off right now. You can do that without, without attacking the other person and their character.

Has to have containment. You can't be raging against the person.

Has to have containment. You can't be raging against the person.

Has to have containment. You can't be raging against the person.

I feel like I should be like, but like, you know, like that's it. Like it starts with your relationship with yourself. The more you have struggled with relationships and maybe you're in with your past and you might have to really confront a lot of triggering moments in a romantic relationship. And it really starts with understanding who you are emotionally and what you bring to the table.

I feel like I should be like, but like, you know, like that's it. Like it starts with your relationship with yourself. The more you have struggled with relationships and maybe you're in with your past and you might have to really confront a lot of triggering moments in a romantic relationship. And it really starts with understanding who you are emotionally and what you bring to the table.

I feel like I should be like, but like, you know, like that's it. Like it starts with your relationship with yourself. The more you have struggled with relationships and maybe you're in with your past and you might have to really confront a lot of triggering moments in a romantic relationship. And it really starts with understanding who you are emotionally and what you bring to the table.

So I would say that. And then the second thing that I would say is who you choose, who you choose to be your life partner is the most important decision you'll ever make. And I think it's over 50% of the battle. I think it's really selection and we're meant to get it wrong. I mean, I don't, you know, like it's okay.

So I would say that. And then the second thing that I would say is who you choose, who you choose to be your life partner is the most important decision you'll ever make. And I think it's over 50% of the battle. I think it's really selection and we're meant to get it wrong. I mean, I don't, you know, like it's okay.

So I would say that. And then the second thing that I would say is who you choose, who you choose to be your life partner is the most important decision you'll ever make. And I think it's over 50% of the battle. I think it's really selection and we're meant to get it wrong. I mean, I don't, you know, like it's okay.

You know, like if someone's like 20 years old and listening to this and thinking they're going to like have to make the right choice, like, no, I, I would say make a lot of wrong choices and have a lot of fun while you're doing that, you know, learn, but it's selection is very important.

You know, like if someone's like 20 years old and listening to this and thinking they're going to like have to make the right choice, like, no, I, I would say make a lot of wrong choices and have a lot of fun while you're doing that, you know, learn, but it's selection is very important.

You know, like if someone's like 20 years old and listening to this and thinking they're going to like have to make the right choice, like, no, I, I would say make a lot of wrong choices and have a lot of fun while you're doing that, you know, learn, but it's selection is very important.

Yeah, and one thing that I would say, and I don't even know if I actually mentioned this in this book, wish I did, but I'll say it here, which is understanding your partner. Like profoundly, you're not going to understand everything about them because we're so complex and we barely understand ourselves.

Yeah, and one thing that I would say, and I don't even know if I actually mentioned this in this book, wish I did, but I'll say it here, which is understanding your partner. Like profoundly, you're not going to understand everything about them because we're so complex and we barely understand ourselves.