Jillian Turecki

Because a lot of women, and men, again, will do this too, but a lot more women will silence what their needs are. Let me try to be cool. Let me go with the flow. Let me be a pleaser. Let me be a nurturer. Because everything is like, I want you to choose me. I want you to pursue me. I want to be like that fairy tale. And nothing could be further from the truth of what reality is. And that is,

Because a lot of women, and men, again, will do this too, but a lot more women will silence what their needs are. Let me try to be cool. Let me go with the flow. Let me be a pleaser. Let me be a nurturer. Because everything is like, I want you to choose me. I want you to pursue me. I want to be like that fairy tale. And nothing could be further from the truth of what reality is. And that is,

You have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing and you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role. And you will scare some people away and those are the right people to scare away.

You have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing and you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role. And you will scare some people away and those are the right people to scare away.

You have to be the one who is direct and forward about what it is that you want. You are to be the one who is also choosing and you are going to become much more attractive to many more people when you actually assume that role. And you will scare some people away and those are the right people to scare away.

So being direct is not the same thing as being antagonistic or being controlling. It's about being forward and vulnerable. There's tremendous vulnerability in exposing yourself to another person and saying, this is what I need from you. Because most of us are too busy unconsciously manipulating others to get our needs met. And we are trying to control the narrative.

So being direct is not the same thing as being antagonistic or being controlling. It's about being forward and vulnerable. There's tremendous vulnerability in exposing yourself to another person and saying, this is what I need from you. Because most of us are too busy unconsciously manipulating others to get our needs met. And we are trying to control the narrative.

So being direct is not the same thing as being antagonistic or being controlling. It's about being forward and vulnerable. There's tremendous vulnerability in exposing yourself to another person and saying, this is what I need from you. Because most of us are too busy unconsciously manipulating others to get our needs met. And we are trying to control the narrative.

We're trying to control the way other people perceive us. So we're doing all this strategy. It's actually very vulnerable to say, I care enough about me and you and what we can build together for me to say, this is what I need from you. And tone and cadence and your body language and your eyes, all of that while you're saying that can be very soft while at the same time being very direct.

We're trying to control the way other people perceive us. So we're doing all this strategy. It's actually very vulnerable to say, I care enough about me and you and what we can build together for me to say, this is what I need from you. And tone and cadence and your body language and your eyes, all of that while you're saying that can be very soft while at the same time being very direct.

We're trying to control the way other people perceive us. So we're doing all this strategy. It's actually very vulnerable to say, I care enough about me and you and what we can build together for me to say, this is what I need from you. And tone and cadence and your body language and your eyes, all of that while you're saying that can be very soft while at the same time being very direct.

And you can also be very intense if you have to be. I don't see that as masculine at all. You know, when we talk about the role of femininity and masculinity, you know, most people have it very wrong. Honestly, like you're not in your feminine if you're doing this. I think that if you prefer to be pursued, let the person pursue you. But that doesn't mean that you play hard to get.

And you can also be very intense if you have to be. I don't see that as masculine at all. You know, when we talk about the role of femininity and masculinity, you know, most people have it very wrong. Honestly, like you're not in your feminine if you're doing this. I think that if you prefer to be pursued, let the person pursue you. But that doesn't mean that you play hard to get.

And you can also be very intense if you have to be. I don't see that as masculine at all. You know, when we talk about the role of femininity and masculinity, you know, most people have it very wrong. Honestly, like you're not in your feminine if you're doing this. I think that if you prefer to be pursued, let the person pursue you. But that doesn't mean that you play hard to get.

It just means that you're busy living your best life and you let there be the dance that is so fun in dating of there being a little bit of courting. Now, inside of a relationship, no one wants to be controlled all the time. And there's some value in allowing yourself to receive care from another person, allowing yourself to receive love.

It just means that you're busy living your best life and you let there be the dance that is so fun in dating of there being a little bit of courting. Now, inside of a relationship, no one wants to be controlled all the time. And there's some value in allowing yourself to receive care from another person, allowing yourself to receive love.

It just means that you're busy living your best life and you let there be the dance that is so fun in dating of there being a little bit of courting. Now, inside of a relationship, no one wants to be controlled all the time. And there's some value in allowing yourself to receive care from another person, allowing yourself to receive love.

So I prefer to see it as more of a receptive energy rather than having to control everything around you. But being direct and forward about what it is that you need from someone is actually very vulnerable.

So I prefer to see it as more of a receptive energy rather than having to control everything around you. But being direct and forward about what it is that you need from someone is actually very vulnerable.

So I prefer to see it as more of a receptive energy rather than having to control everything around you. But being direct and forward about what it is that you need from someone is actually very vulnerable.