Jillian Turecki
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Yeah, well, a few things. I mean, she didn't just attract the relationship. She chose the right relationship too, right? So that's very important. You can be sad and you can even be depressed and you can find love. What's going to feed the relationship is you getting help for that depression and not expecting someone to heal your depression.
Yeah, well, a few things. I mean, she didn't just attract the relationship. She chose the right relationship too, right? So that's very important. You can be sad and you can even be depressed and you can find love. What's going to feed the relationship is you getting help for that depression and not expecting someone to heal your depression.
Yeah, well, a few things. I mean, she didn't just attract the relationship. She chose the right relationship too, right? So that's very important. You can be sad and you can even be depressed and you can find love. What's going to feed the relationship is you getting help for that depression and not expecting someone to heal your depression.
Having meaning in life, having sources of connection that isn't just one person, I think is very important. And that might mean that someone has to look at their life holistically and say, okay, I don't have enough meaningful connection in my life. I'm making it all about finding that romantic partner.
Having meaning in life, having sources of connection that isn't just one person, I think is very important. And that might mean that someone has to look at their life holistically and say, okay, I don't have enough meaningful connection in my life. I'm making it all about finding that romantic partner.
Having meaning in life, having sources of connection that isn't just one person, I think is very important. And that might mean that someone has to look at their life holistically and say, okay, I don't have enough meaningful connection in my life. I'm making it all about finding that romantic partner.
That is going to become stressful for my relationship because no one person could ever be everything for me. So what do I need to do to get more connection? And it might be hard. It might mean pushing yourself past your comfort zone, building community somewhere, joining a certain group of some sort where you can meet like-minded people.
That is going to become stressful for my relationship because no one person could ever be everything for me. So what do I need to do to get more connection? And it might be hard. It might mean pushing yourself past your comfort zone, building community somewhere, joining a certain group of some sort where you can meet like-minded people.
That is going to become stressful for my relationship because no one person could ever be everything for me. So what do I need to do to get more connection? And it might be hard. It might mean pushing yourself past your comfort zone, building community somewhere, joining a certain group of some sort where you can meet like-minded people.
You know, that's why they call it inner work, because sometimes we have to learn how to meet our needs in ways that we are not accustomed to meeting our needs so that we don't do that thing that we usually do in a relationship that doesn't work anymore.
You know, that's why they call it inner work, because sometimes we have to learn how to meet our needs in ways that we are not accustomed to meeting our needs so that we don't do that thing that we usually do in a relationship that doesn't work anymore.
You know, that's why they call it inner work, because sometimes we have to learn how to meet our needs in ways that we are not accustomed to meeting our needs so that we don't do that thing that we usually do in a relationship that doesn't work anymore.
So oftentimes, like this person who you were referring to, I believe it was the one who kept on dating cheaters and she had developed this belief that all men cheat, which is, of course, it's not true. Right. In fact, more women statistically than men cheat on their spouses. But she had a pattern of choosing these men that had really, really big character defects.
So oftentimes, like this person who you were referring to, I believe it was the one who kept on dating cheaters and she had developed this belief that all men cheat, which is, of course, it's not true. Right. In fact, more women statistically than men cheat on their spouses. But she had a pattern of choosing these men that had really, really big character defects.
So oftentimes, like this person who you were referring to, I believe it was the one who kept on dating cheaters and she had developed this belief that all men cheat, which is, of course, it's not true. Right. In fact, more women statistically than men cheat on their spouses. But she had a pattern of choosing these men that had really, really big character defects.
And she would overlook it because she just wanted the relationship. So when she learned to kind of challenge those beliefs and also realize that like, She put all this stock in a romantic relationship and totally forgot about the things that actually bring her joy and a sense of peace and a sense of calm and a sense of contentment.
And she would overlook it because she just wanted the relationship. So when she learned to kind of challenge those beliefs and also realize that like, She put all this stock in a romantic relationship and totally forgot about the things that actually bring her joy and a sense of peace and a sense of calm and a sense of contentment.
And she would overlook it because she just wanted the relationship. So when she learned to kind of challenge those beliefs and also realize that like, She put all this stock in a romantic relationship and totally forgot about the things that actually bring her joy and a sense of peace and a sense of calm and a sense of contentment.
And when she started to nurture that in herself and remove some of the dire necessity of a romantic relationship right now, then she was able to date with fewer expectations, more open-mindedness, and happiness. a lot more discernment. So it does play a really big role. Well, it sure ended up working out for her.
And when she started to nurture that in herself and remove some of the dire necessity of a romantic relationship right now, then she was able to date with fewer expectations, more open-mindedness, and happiness. a lot more discernment. So it does play a really big role. Well, it sure ended up working out for her.