Jillian Turecki

Absolutely. All those things are true and can happen. But I have spoken. I remember I did speak to one woman and she said, you know, I'm just really lucky that he loves me.

Absolutely. All those things are true and can happen. But I have spoken. I remember I did speak to one woman and she said, you know, I'm just really lucky that he loves me.

When I dug a little bit deeper, there were things about herself that she actually liked, but she did struggle.

When I dug a little bit deeper, there were things about herself that she actually liked, but she did struggle.

Yeah, I know, but at least she appreciated him.

Yeah, I know, but at least she appreciated him.

But she loved him very much for loving her.

But she loved him very much for loving her.

And I think that that's better than the other.

And I think that that's better than the other.

It's better than the alternative. And she wasn't trying to sabotage or anything like that, you know?

It's better than the alternative. And she wasn't trying to sabotage or anything like that, you know?

With other people. It could be plural.

With other people. It could be plural.

A lot of those people that you just described have really good friends. And so they know what it is to be loved through their friendships. Different story when it comes to romantic relationships. Hang around people where there's a lot of love. Hang around couples where there's a lot of love. I don't know, watch it in a movie even if you have to. Honestly.

A lot of those people that you just described have really good friends. And so they know what it is to be loved through their friendships. Different story when it comes to romantic relationships. Hang around people where there's a lot of love. Hang around couples where there's a lot of love. I don't know, watch it in a movie even if you have to. Honestly.

And also because every person that we come into contact with on a regular basis and even not on a regular basis is a mirror reflecting back to you. If you develop friendships and community, maybe you give back, maybe you volunteer somewhere and then you build community that way.

And also because every person that we come into contact with on a regular basis and even not on a regular basis is a mirror reflecting back to you. If you develop friendships and community, maybe you give back, maybe you volunteer somewhere and then you build community that way.

You are actually learning about your self-worth and you're learning about yourself through these friendships and community that you've built. And that gives you a stronger sense of self. And when you get that stronger sense of self, then you start to, you know, people start to respond to you and you develop these things and then you start these connections and then you see, oh, I am worthy. I am.

You are actually learning about your self-worth and you're learning about yourself through these friendships and community that you've built. And that gives you a stronger sense of self. And when you get that stronger sense of self, then you start to, you know, people start to respond to you and you develop these things and then you start these connections and then you see, oh, I am worthy. I am.