Jillian Turecki

But I was told many years ago that there's no such thing as failure, there's just lessons. A lot of lessons. A lot of lessons. And the thing is, the story that you keep replaying in your mind about your marriage and the things that you wish you had done differently or the mistakes that you made or the mistakes that he made,

But I was told many years ago that there's no such thing as failure, there's just lessons. A lot of lessons. A lot of lessons. And the thing is, the story that you keep replaying in your mind about your marriage and the things that you wish you had done differently or the mistakes that you made or the mistakes that he made,

At this point, it's really a story because we can't remember everything that happened back then. We're just giving it a meaning. So it's not that the story isn't true, but you're giving it a meaning, which is I failed it. I don't know. I'm a failure. I can't be trusted. If I get married again, I'm going to have pain again. Do these all ring true to you?

At this point, it's really a story because we can't remember everything that happened back then. We're just giving it a meaning. So it's not that the story isn't true, but you're giving it a meaning, which is I failed it. I don't know. I'm a failure. I can't be trusted. If I get married again, I'm going to have pain again. Do these all ring true to you?

At this point, it's really a story because we can't remember everything that happened back then. We're just giving it a meaning. So it's not that the story isn't true, but you're giving it a meaning, which is I failed it. I don't know. I'm a failure. I can't be trusted. If I get married again, I'm going to have pain again. Do these all ring true to you?

Right. And I understand that. I understand that. But the fear of pain is making you push away good men.

Right. And I understand that. I understand that. But the fear of pain is making you push away good men.

Right. And I understand that. I understand that. But the fear of pain is making you push away good men.

But you both let each other down in many ways, right? In your marriage? I mean, isn't that, that's typically what happens in a marriage, is that we all make mistakes. I mean, it's not that it's a 50-50 split, but it was a marriage, it didn't work out. And now you have an opportunity to love again. The greatest gift you can give your children is to live your life and to be happy.

But you both let each other down in many ways, right? In your marriage? I mean, isn't that, that's typically what happens in a marriage, is that we all make mistakes. I mean, it's not that it's a 50-50 split, but it was a marriage, it didn't work out. And now you have an opportunity to love again. The greatest gift you can give your children is to live your life and to be happy.

But you both let each other down in many ways, right? In your marriage? I mean, isn't that, that's typically what happens in a marriage, is that we all make mistakes. I mean, it's not that it's a 50-50 split, but it was a marriage, it didn't work out. And now you have an opportunity to love again. The greatest gift you can give your children is to live your life and to be happy.

Now, of course, you can't be happy all the time. But the greatest gift you can give them is to just live your life. There is no version of love that does not come with it, the risk of a broken heart. But we decide to take that risk because nothing meaningful in life comes without risk. And you have to now start to trust yourself that whatever doesn't work out, you can handle.

Now, of course, you can't be happy all the time. But the greatest gift you can give them is to just live your life. There is no version of love that does not come with it, the risk of a broken heart. But we decide to take that risk because nothing meaningful in life comes without risk. And you have to now start to trust yourself that whatever doesn't work out, you can handle.

Now, of course, you can't be happy all the time. But the greatest gift you can give them is to just live your life. There is no version of love that does not come with it, the risk of a broken heart. But we decide to take that risk because nothing meaningful in life comes without risk. And you have to now start to trust yourself that whatever doesn't work out, you can handle.

Und wenn du in einer Beziehung bist und du anfängst zu bemerken, oh, ich mache das Ding wieder, wo ich sie entferne, ich sabotiere, hast du jetzt die Möglichkeit, dir zu sagen, oh, ich mache das Ding wieder. Ich mache das nicht. Und du kannst es sogar mit deinem Partner sprechen. Ich habe diesen Pattern, den ich mache, und ich will das nicht machen. Können wir darüber sprechen?

Und wenn du in einer Beziehung bist und du anfängst zu bemerken, oh, ich mache das Ding wieder, wo ich sie entferne, ich sabotiere, hast du jetzt die Möglichkeit, dir zu sagen, oh, ich mache das Ding wieder. Ich mache das nicht. Und du kannst es sogar mit deinem Partner sprechen. Ich habe diesen Pattern, den ich mache, und ich will das nicht machen. Können wir darüber sprechen?

Und wenn du in einer Beziehung bist und du anfängst zu bemerken, oh, ich mache das Ding wieder, wo ich sie entferne, ich sabotiere, hast du jetzt die Möglichkeit, dir zu sagen, oh, ich mache das Ding wieder. Ich mache das nicht. Und du kannst es sogar mit deinem Partner sprechen. Ich habe diesen Pattern, den ich mache, und ich will das nicht machen. Können wir darüber sprechen?

Du weißt, ich wette, dass du genau weißt, was es ist, was du tust, wenn du eine Beziehung sabotierst. You have a habit. That's true.

Du weißt, ich wette, dass du genau weißt, was es ist, was du tust, wenn du eine Beziehung sabotierst. You have a habit. That's true.

Du weißt, ich wette, dass du genau weißt, was es ist, was du tust, wenn du eine Beziehung sabotierst. You have a habit. That's true.