Jillian Turecki

Also ich gebe nur einige Beispiele. Also für Menschen, die verabredet sind, wie vielleicht du diese Erfahrung hattest, wo du verabschiedest dich mit jemandem und du fühlst, dass die Gefühle nicht im Balance sind, dass du mehr in ihnen bist, als sie in dich sind. Du erfährst also Wege, in denen du mehr von ihnen akzeptiert oder gewählt werden kannst. Viele Frauen, was der größte Fehler ist,

Women tend to, because we've been so conditioned, oh, if I just give more, then he or she is going to be more interested in me. And it's like, no, no, no, actually they're going to be turned off, which is so interesting. Because you're giving more when you're not being given to. So a lot of women will just give more or try to be cool or try to be different.

Women tend to, because we've been so conditioned, oh, if I just give more, then he or she is going to be more interested in me. And it's like, no, no, no, actually they're going to be turned off, which is so interesting. Because you're giving more when you're not being given to. So a lot of women will just give more or try to be cool or try to be different.

Women tend to, because we've been so conditioned, oh, if I just give more, then he or she is going to be more interested in me. And it's like, no, no, no, actually they're going to be turned off, which is so interesting. Because you're giving more when you're not being given to. So a lot of women will just give more or try to be cool or try to be different.

They'll just try to figure out, how can I get this person to like me? So that is one way that we do it. And then in relationships, it's like... You know, there's a difference between fighting for your relationship and fighting to be enough for the person who you are in a relationship with. Yeah. And...

They'll just try to figure out, how can I get this person to like me? So that is one way that we do it. And then in relationships, it's like... You know, there's a difference between fighting for your relationship and fighting to be enough for the person who you are in a relationship with. Yeah. And...

They'll just try to figure out, how can I get this person to like me? So that is one way that we do it. And then in relationships, it's like... You know, there's a difference between fighting for your relationship and fighting to be enough for the person who you are in a relationship with. Yeah. And...

Für jemanden, der in der Position ist, in der er fühlt, dass er nur genug kämpft, kämpft, um geliebt zu werden. Der Weg, das zu stoppen, ist, über deine Boundaries zu sprechen und über das zu sprechen, was du brauchst und den Verlust der Beziehung zu riskieren. Because there is no other way.

Für jemanden, der in der Position ist, in der er fühlt, dass er nur genug kämpft, kämpft, um geliebt zu werden. Der Weg, das zu stoppen, ist, über deine Boundaries zu sprechen und über das zu sprechen, was du brauchst und den Verlust der Beziehung zu riskieren. Because there is no other way.

Für jemanden, der in der Position ist, in der er fühlt, dass er nur genug kämpft, kämpft, um geliebt zu werden. Der Weg, das zu stoppen, ist, über deine Boundaries zu sprechen und über das zu sprechen, was du brauchst und den Verlust der Beziehung zu riskieren. Because there is no other way.

You have to actually stand, you gotta change the dynamic where you're not doing that anymore and instead you have to stand up for yourself and face the consequences of it ending, which is gonna be much easier on you than to continue this hamster wheel of trying to be enough for the person who keeps distancing themselves from you.

You have to actually stand, you gotta change the dynamic where you're not doing that anymore and instead you have to stand up for yourself and face the consequences of it ending, which is gonna be much easier on you than to continue this hamster wheel of trying to be enough for the person who keeps distancing themselves from you.

You have to actually stand, you gotta change the dynamic where you're not doing that anymore and instead you have to stand up for yourself and face the consequences of it ending, which is gonna be much easier on you than to continue this hamster wheel of trying to be enough for the person who keeps distancing themselves from you.

Und so könnten wir eine tolle Karriere haben, wir könnten das Geld haben, was wir wollen, wir könnten unsere physische Gesundheit haben. Aber wie die physische Gesundheit, wenn wir nicht unsere physische Gesundheit haben oder eine romantische Beziehung ist, wir werden sehr, sehr gestresst aufwachen. Alles wird in unseren Leben weg. Und so ist der Power, den eine Beziehung hat, tief.

Und so könnten wir eine tolle Karriere haben, wir könnten das Geld haben, was wir wollen, wir könnten unsere physische Gesundheit haben. Aber wie die physische Gesundheit, wenn wir nicht unsere physische Gesundheit haben oder eine romantische Beziehung ist, wir werden sehr, sehr gestresst aufwachen. Alles wird in unseren Leben weg. Und so ist der Power, den eine Beziehung hat, tief.

Und so könnten wir eine tolle Karriere haben, wir könnten das Geld haben, was wir wollen, wir könnten unsere physische Gesundheit haben. Aber wie die physische Gesundheit, wenn wir nicht unsere physische Gesundheit haben oder eine romantische Beziehung ist, wir werden sehr, sehr gestresst aufwachen. Alles wird in unseren Leben weg. Und so ist der Power, den eine Beziehung hat, tief.

And that's why we have to be the co-creators of a relationship. We have to make it great. But a bad relationship, and when I put bad in quotation marks, a bad relationship is, you know, one or both people feel totally unseen, unheard. You're not nice to each other. There's just tons of fighting.

And that's why we have to be the co-creators of a relationship. We have to make it great. But a bad relationship, and when I put bad in quotation marks, a bad relationship is, you know, one or both people feel totally unseen, unheard. You're not nice to each other. There's just tons of fighting.

And that's why we have to be the co-creators of a relationship. We have to make it great. But a bad relationship, and when I put bad in quotation marks, a bad relationship is, you know, one or both people feel totally unseen, unheard. You're not nice to each other. There's just tons of fighting.

Of course, on the far end of the spectrum, there's abuse, but it doesn't even have to be abusive for it to be bad. die Qualität deines Lebens zu reduzieren, so viel wie das.