Jo Frost

We're going to have children.

Like, what advice would you give us?

And I'm like, well, first and foremost, congratulations.

Right?

Talk.

all I would say to you right now in this stage, talk to each other, talk to each other about how you were raised, what you loved about it, what you didn't love about it, you know, how you want to raise your own children, what's important to you, what do those values look like, like you work in this relationship department, Paul, like do you know how much time and effort and talking when you're dating someone, like you're all there, you're taking them out, you're on the, you put down

the phone no you put down the phone no you put down the phone i can put down the phone no you put down the phone and you know you're like all hyped up and you're talking and you go out for dinner and then like marriage happens and then crickets like crickets like everything stops and you're like how how yes right but you have to also because again i'm putting in the decades of seeing this

You have to also realise that there has been media that has also conditioned, that's changing now, women.

Like you would see in magazines, oh, this is how you capture the man of your dreams.

And this is how you, you know, don't ask him about how many children he may want.

Or don't ask him, you know, about this.

And you're like, no, ask him.

Because if you're sitting in front of somebody that can't answer those questions or is offended by those questions, thank you very much.

That was really nice.

Goodbye.

Thank you very much.

I think I'm going on a second date now.