Joe Biden

For you to say, I get it, I respect you.

And then for you to have the maturity to say,

Actually, I want you back.

And for you to be like, not like, oh, I told you so.

For you to be like, I'm here for you.

Like that's not perfection.

To me, that's maturity.

And I think that's, I really want people to get that from it, that you are going to have disagreements.

You are going to want space.

Like me and Raleigh went through that.

She, at the beginning of our relationship, if we had a disagreement and we were the same, we never, we made a rule that we would never raise our voices at each other because I came from a home where it was not great.

She comes from a home where her parents don't raise their voices.

But I was just like, I never wanted that in my home.

I wanted the energy of my home to be so sacred.

And I wanted the energy of the home to always have a space where everyone just walked in and felt like a warm hug.

And I was like, we can't argue and then expect that to happen.

But it took a long time for us to realize that when she, at the start of our disagreements, she wanted space.

And I used to say to her, well, if you don't want to talk about it right now, that means you don't care about me.

And that wasn't true.

She just needed space to process.