Joe Biden

So it took time for us to mature for me to realize, wait a minute, you wanting space is you caring for the relationship.

Some people, I get it.

They want to talk about it right then.

They want to, the one thing that also works for us so much is like, we're not chill people, but we're like, we're not, we're never going to get, I like, I'm not going to yell at anyone in my life.

Yeah, same.

Yeah.

And you know, I came from a home where a lot of that was happening.

And I saw, like, at a young age, and I was just like, well, like, my parents weren't speaking the same language.

Obviously, they were speaking the actual same language.

They weren't speaking the same language to each other to communicate.

And if someone comes at you, like, hostile right away, the first thing I'm going to do, and I know she's going to do, is shut down.

So you're not getting anything.

You know, and I always say this.

Guys are so quick to, like...

They got to win.

They got to win the argument.

And it's like, what are you doing?

What are you winning?

Like, you're going to argue with your wife and like make her cry.

And then you're like, I won that argument.