Joe Duran
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64 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2018
last heard Sep 2018
Joe Duran’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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We don't advertise when you go on social media.
You don't advertise what it costs to get things.
You just show how lovely and glamorous your life is.
And there are really three ways in which you get impacted.
Two, in really your lifestyle.
The first is, of course, that you see the way that people live, but you don't see the cost of it, as you just mentioned.
And so you
you don't see the extra time they had to put in to take that lovely vacation or the fact that maybe they haven't been able to spend time with their family and watch their kids' sports because they needed to make more money.
So the cost is seldom left out of any conversation.
That's true, and it's also true that often the meal is not quite as lovely as you imagine it might be.
They're not showing you the argument they might be having after that second glass of wine.
Right, but not what's happening around it.
Now, it's possible that everything is as perfect as that picture you're looking at, but it's also equally likely—
that he's annoyed at how expensive the meal was or she's annoyed at the fact that he won't stop boasting about it.
So again, what we've got to remember is this is their life and it is not your life and that their being happy takes nothing away from your being happy.
And that what makes one person happy is not necessarily what should make you happy.
And so this comparison, it's very important to remember two things.
One, we all have different priorities and the way they live doesn't affect you.
And that's the second point, which is the pie is not a fixed pie.
It doesn't mean because somebody has more of something that you're going to get less of it.
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