Joe Hudson
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saying like, oh, I'm a little scared there or I don't want that or I love you or whatever the truth is, it's like a little bit scary.
That's like the trick.
And it's very relational because the
the, hate to call it this, but like the avoidance that can come with that like level of peace, what you're avoiding is the pain of relationships earlier in your life.
And so being able to be vulnerable and open yourself up to that pain again is the healing process.
And so it is, it's getting deeply vulnerable.
And that's the biggest trick.
Recently.
Right.
They weren't doing good.
Right.
Oh, correct.
Yeah.
That's, I mean, that's like, so for instance, I just talked about my dad being an alcoholic that was vulnerable for at some point in my life.
That is not at all vulnerable.
Right.
Right.
And, um,
And so vulnerability, sometimes part of vulnerability is like saying something vulnerable that nobody's going to think is vulnerable, right?
But yeah, it has to make you pucker.