Joe Hudson

I was like, you're crying, but you look angry.

She goes, I am.

I'm like, how often when you're sad, are you angry?

She's like about half the time.

I was like,

why i was not expecting an answer she goes because when i get angry at my sister she's bigger than me and she just bops me on the head but if i get sad she does what i want man if that isn't a perfect explanation to so many dynamics that are going on yeah subtle manipulations yeah

So all that is repressed anger.

And there's so much vitality in anger.

There's so much determination and ambition just all stuck in repressed anger.

All these beautiful aspects of humanity.

Yeah, that's right.

All of this is just the things that we had to do as kids to get our needs met.

Yeah.

Yeah, and just to be clear, because I know some people have some issues here, when I'm saying getting angry, I don't mean getting angry at somebody.

Like, move your anger, but don't do it in a way that destroys things or just hurts people.

Actually, all of your emotions aren't really...

They're not best to be done at.

So I would recommend not doing them at people.

You can be sad at somebody.

Like you can cry to get them to change what they're doing.