Joe Hudson
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Because that's their branch going to their son, right?
Like this is their job.
Occasionally I'll say, hey, I see something is going completely off.
Are you interested in hearing my opinion on that thing?
But I'll still ask to see if it's even wanted.
Broadly speaking, negative emotions first, positive emotions second.
Positive emotions are actually scarier for people to feel than the negative ones for more than like two seconds.
So if you're a man and kind of modern person,
upper middle class white society, it's usually sadness first, anger second, fear third.
If you are a woman, it's usually fear, sadness first.
I'm sorry, anger first, sadness, fear.
But it really just depends on your particular type.
What I do notice is sadness and anger are usually the first ones.
Fear and then excitement and then love, joy.
Or joy, love.
Those two depends on the way that you are.
So it's typically something like that.
The other ones, the guilt, the shame, the judgment...
A lot of those just start dissipating if you get the main ones.
If you really get like the helplessness, which is a version of fear, the fear, the anger, the sadness, grief, which is all of those things combined.